I know where I slightly got my wires crossed.
Another term for 'militant' is 'radical feminism' (as i know it), the bra-burning kind that are downright hostile.
That being the case, it then becomes an topic of identifying the different kinds of feminism, attitudes and beliefs in various societies, a topic that perhaps needs another thread or is better left to the lecture rooms.
There's still some grey areas I have concerning the daughter/grandfather issue that you mentioned, but unless it's an actual law in your country.
(which it isn't right? It's more a self belief than a rule right?)
Correct me if I'm wrong tho, but I was just thinking if it really is more of a belief that she uses to abuse everyone, there are ways around that.
I hope some kinda of good resolution eventually occurs, something that'll ease the pain/hatred that you seem to carry.
Saying that, all the best for 2009, here's hoping good fortune comes your way.
