hahah actually my gf approached her hubby, then MY hubby, THEN me... there's a thread that I made long ago on it, at http://forums.animesuki.com/showthread.php?t=87581 that might answer some of the questions it's a lot of work, but I wouldn't trade it for the world
I have a husband, and a girlfriend. I'm polyamorous; hubby & I just celebrated out 14 yr wedding anniversary, and my gf and I have been seriously dating for over a year, now. Note she is my girlfriend, not mine and my husband's gf; he's monogamous.
heheh yeah; my hubby and i've been married for almost 14 years (december 1996), and my girlfriend and I've been dating for over 1 year. I might not be the best to get advice from personally, but I'm sure full of opinions!