- I've asked a lot of people, what do you expect of your perfect man/woman?
There can be a thousand of answers. Then I ask them, what bad side do you expect from them?
Can you take it if they are ugly? Stupid? Violent? Alchoholic? Unfaithful?
No one is perfect.
If you search for their bad sides instead of qualities, you can find easier your real love.
Perfection is an illusion, a dream. Only reality can bring true happiness.