you focus on the first part of my post (the joke part) and not on the second one
i dont think any relationship between them would be self-destructive (though its might destroy some furniture on praticulary good nights
)
its debateable how much she hates him at this stage
i'd say that if anything, their relationship would have a very healthy dose of respect between them
and i'd say that he's probably the most likely candidate for her should she choose to move on at some point
at least more then any other character in the show
now whether or not she WOULD choose to move on is quite a different question