I think there is a lot of truth to what your saying Kaijo. Love usually grows, and it's something that you learn even with the other persons flaws.
personally, I think that is one of the big things that is breaking up marriages now days: People who have dated for several months or years, and then get married thinking they know everything about the other person...but you can never really know a person until your married, so people have expectations that are grounded with no room for mutual growth and understanding. Again, that's my personal view and I'm well aware that most people see things very differently from me in this case
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