yessssss i am safe. except for the christmas part.
i imagine being a group leader very much like most leadership positions. you have to make decisions, and organise almost everything, and dog the people who are holding things up.
Most importantly, you have to be nice and funny, and understanding that people often do things outside of anime, like visit their loved ones.
i won't even consider joining a group if i don't like the people in it. especially the leader. (thus the convenience of a recruit chan XD)