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Old 2007-12-27, 00:07   Link #97
bbduece
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Join Date: Dec 2007
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Originally Posted by grey_moon View Post
re: Sana's parents...

It doesn't take much of a leap to work out a scenario that supports his situation. They need to keep their jobs. I know it is a thing we all love to have, but hey it isn't that easy to keep a job and a family life. They had to move from their town 5 years ago for what ever reason, but my bet it was work related. They had to put Sana up through private school which costs a wee bit more meaning that if they are not affluent they really need their jobs or need to take out a loan. Then they see their son still suffering. Remember the suicide didn't happen last week. So they allowed him to live back in his home to hopefully regain his ability to socialise. And it actually worked!

What would you do? Let him stay locked up in his room and become a hikimori, well at least you know he is safe... Throw away your jobs and not be able to support a life?

You know what is one of the most important parts of parenting? It is called letting go.
well yea anything is possible, maybe after he attepmted the suicide and lives through it, he becomes the perfect son......and wont do stupid things....

easier said than done...i dont know if you are a parent or not but i cant do it - not in that situation, a 15 years old out to kill himself.....its just not an option...i mean he couldnt make a sane decision so he try to take his own life, what makes me think he can make decisions living by himself.....a kid that confuse i would not let him live by himself...15 years is too young after a suicidal attempt to be living by himself...maybe if he was little older



maybe japense culture is different i dont know, my USA influences - chinese culture and upbringing states otherwise

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