@blujazz87,
Hmmm, maybe I misunderstood the Facebook part or something. I guess that part's cool, then.
Well, all I can tell you at this point is; don't
try. Or at least, don't try too hard; just let things proceed naturally. There's no need for you to try and influence the outcome.
If it'll happen, it'll happen. If it doesn't....well, there's always next time, y'know what I mean?