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And one of the WORST things you can do is to lie about yourself. I've known a few ppl who have told their so-called bf/gf online that they look like a supermodel and all other kinds of things, but then that relationship is doomed to fail, cause if you ever meet said person, then they know you've lied to them. And to start a relationship with a lie, tends to lead to that relationship failing.
My relationship was a very odd case--because, we told each other what we looked like, neither of us lied about it, but we never saw what each other actually looked like until he came down from Michigan to Florida. By then, we we're already engaged. So we went totally on personality in our relationship. And it turned out good. So I am a VERY lucky woman in a lot of ways.
But I say that if you're in an online relationship, they do work out. But you have to make them work. You have to want it bad enough. If you do, then anything is possible.
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