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Originally Posted by Shiemi
On another note, I have a problem. To this day, my ex husband has no idea that I'm engaged and getting married. I don't even know if he knows I have someone though I told his brother at some point. I have no idea how to tell my ex husband or if I ought to tell him. It's confusing. My head is quite messy at the moment and my daughters tell me not to tell their father yet because even they fear how he might react. But he will eventually know somehow. Hmm...
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I can understand your fears, but I think it's best right now to tell him yourself, right away, instead of waiting for him to find out in another way. It's true that you have no idea how he will respond, and it's true that he'll probably be angry with you or, at the very least, he'll be hurt by it. Still, though, the sooner he finds out the better; and it's better that he finds out from you, and not from anyone else. The direct approach is usually the best approach, even if you're not sure of how he'll react.