Dating is undefine.
Figuring out how to stimulate the mind and the senses will bring you closer to victory.
One stratgey can be a sure thing for one person but it can also be a slap in the face for another (or worst).
Everything is situational.
Undstanding the person first before a mindless prememptive strike is usually safe way to tread.
My personal opinion: to the find the best mate is a combination of experience and luck.
experience = we learn from each other, know what we like and dislike,what we can handle and what we can not, learn a lot about what we really want and about ourselfs after dating someone, sometimes we learn what we don't want and break up.
Luck = hit and miss, actually finding that one person that we will click well with, someone that will take our crap and vice versa.
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