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Old 2010-03-18, 13:54   Link #3899
Samari
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Originally Posted by Yoko Takeo View Post
I could do that, but the last time I did something like that, it didn't turn out really well at all. Plus, if she does break up, she'll need her time to recover and in such an instance, I don't want to be simply a shoulder to cry on if I want to pursue something with her. I won't pretend that I'm interested though. I was curious more than anything. I do like what Kafriel said though, so I will definitely keep that in mind next time I speak to her. Thanks a lot!
Every girl is different though. Some are quick to hop on the next guy (whether it's a rebound or genuine interest) while others feel the need to wait a while once they're out of a relationship...which is fine of course.

Just saying, don't use your past failure as a reason to not try the same thing again.

Oh and if you ever feel like you're just being the doormat for a rebound or maybe just in the friend zone, bail...or tell the woman straight up.
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