Most girls, around here anyways, like the gay guys. For some simple reasons too, good fashion and they don't act like slobs, they aren't looking for sex or anything like that and you can have a conversation without thinking "I wonder if he's thinking about that..." and you don't have to worry about him checking you out or anything that may seem offensive. They can sit down and have a nice conversation, and be friends - I think thats what girls really want, just a friend. Violence is probably a turn off as well, of course this whole post is a total guess
