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Originally Posted by Paranoid Android
That or the mystery. Where once the couple begin to uncover each others character; that sense of curiosity dissipates and motivation to continue the relationship in the same vibrant manner is gone.
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Perhaps it's just the wrong mindset. For example, I'm at the point in my life where I'm past looking for a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend. I want a potential wife. Because of that, I'm not in it for the "mystery." I made sure to find out what I could about my current girlfriend BEFORE we got serious. Now, the "vibrant manner" comes from being close to a person who is so similar to me. It's BECAUSE of her character that I like her, not in spite of it.