[Narona]

Originally Posted by Anh_Minh

I'd peg 30 as "too late to change", and thus too late to worry. Note, I'm not saying he should have a girlfriend now. But if he's going to change some of his worst traits and habits, it'd better be now.

I was talking in most cases. A sociable/nice person has still the possibility to find love at 30. But I agree that if he is the same as he is now at 30, it will be a big, big problem

Originally Posted by SaintessHeart

Spoiler for not related:

It has pretty much got to do with what environments which I grew up in. No matter how much pressure or disasters my family has been through, we still came out through fine, so some of my relatives said, "My parents are lucky to have me because I absorb the worst of their bad lucks."

Besides, I spent more time in the library when I was young instead of playgrounds (I had speech impediment and only started to speak properly at 7, but I read the unabridged version of The Odyessy at the age of 3). Probably what attributed to my retarded level of EQ (had an eval at 14, IQ over 130 and EQ at 43.).

Seriously, your relatives really did say that? I don't know what to say.