As long as you confident and felt it is necessary, no reason to back out. Otherwise, don't use it. It's controversial and many DUMB author (one of them being myself) use it
just because, and there's also issues about the need of complex characterization and subsequent interaction.
I myself normally avoid touching the theme unless I have a ten foot pole nearby (combination of indoctrination, media brainwashing, and personal experience), the implied date rape attempt in ST is the best I can do, while the other one... it's so wrong in so many level, being a product of creator breakdown and all.