Dating

[Hasumi]

This is the second time I've been mistaken for a dude.

my mistake then

At one point in time, I even recall we gave serious dating advice on this thread

nobody's really asking for it, then again the crazy shit keeps this thread breathing

(if you have no idea what I'm referring to, go look em up on urban dictionary- there are TONS of those wackjob ideas)

i rofl'd, seriously, wish i had a video

[Last Sinner]

The safe option is usually the ice cube. Just smooth/round out any edges. Ice cubes are effective for nipples, stomach and going down on someone.

[Ascaloth]

Originally Posted by Last Sinner

The safe option is usually the ice cube. Just smooth/round out any edges. Ice cubes are effective for nipples, stomach and going down on someone.

I vaguely recall something called "Fire and Ice", where the guy takes alternating small sips of warm and icy water, which he holds in his mouth without swallowing while laying kisses all over his partner's body. Apparently the abrupt temperature changes really heightens the sensation...

...wait, why haven't I tried this yet? I'll be back.

[germanturkey]

^^ yeah, i read that in maxim. apparently it doesn't work too well. haha

[Kafriel]

This is the second time I've been mistaken for a dude.

Needs more photos of yourself

... does there happen to be a Lost and Found box around here where that serious stuff went?

Most people know what to do after a month of daily visits here, but doesn't that mean we're doing something right?

[Sumeragi]

Originally Posted by Magin

At one point in time, I even recall we gave serious dating advice on this thread

... does there happen to be a Lost and Found box around here where that serious stuff went?

Food in a relationship is a very serious subject, and I say this without a single trace of irony.

[Khu]

But you do need trace amounts of iron in your food!

[DonQuigleone]

Originally Posted by RadiantBeam

This is the second time I've been mistaken for a dude.

No such thing as women on the internet.

Didn't you know?

[RadiantBeam]

Hm, mixed feelings all around on this subject. I suppose I want to share it just to get it off my chest.

I was eating breakfast this morning when my mom happened to inform me that my first love is now apparently engaged. I don't know all of the details, but it seems one of our high school friends was deported, and he offered to marry her to keep her in the States. That failed, but he still proposed to her anyway and says that in two years he's hoping to raise enough money to bring her back. His parents are fully supportive of this.

I am rather.... hm. I can't put it into words. On one hand I really shouldn't care; it's been two years since I last spoke to him, and I don't have the right to comment on his choices. On the other hand, though, I'm shocked that he did this, and, I admit... a little bit hurt.

Heh. Seems he only really ever had his heart in the right place when I wasn't involved.

In any event, my mom has invited him to my sister's graduation party in July. That should be.... fun.

[Hasumi]

Hm, mixed feelings all around on this subject. I suppose I want to share it just to get it off my chest.

I was eating breakfast this morning when my mom happened to inform me that my first love is now apparently engaged. I don't know all of the details, but it seems one of our high school friends was deported, and he offered to marry her to keep her in the States. That failed, but he still proposed to her anyway and says that in two years he's hoping to raise enough money to bring her back. His parents are fully supportive of this.

I am rather.... hm. I can't put it into words. On one hand I really shouldn't care; it's been two years since I last spoke to him, and I don't have the right to comment on his choices. On the other hand, though, I'm shocked that he did this, and, I admit... a little bit hurt.

Heh. Seems he only really ever had his heart in the right place when I wasn't involved.

In any event, my mom has invited him to my sister's graduation party in July. That should be.... fun.

first love stuff is murky

guess after all that food stuff we're back in business

[Sumeragi]

Originally Posted by RadiantBeam

Hm, mixed feelings all around on this subject. I suppose I want to share it just to get it off my chest.

I was eating breakfast this morning when my mom happened to inform me that my first love is now apparently engaged. I don't know all of the details, but it seems one of our high school friends was deported, and he offered to marry her to keep her in the States. That failed, but he still proposed to her anyway and says that in two years he's hoping to raise enough money to bring her back. His parents are fully supportive of this.

I am rather.... hm. I can't put it into words. On one hand I really shouldn't care; it's been two years since I last spoke to him, and I don't have the right to comment on his choices. On the other hand, though, I'm shocked that he did this, and, I admit... a little bit hurt.

Heh. Seems he only really ever had his heart in the right place when I wasn't involved.

In any event, my mom has invited him to my sister's graduation party in July. That should be.... fun.

Not sure what I can say about this. For starters, what kind of first love was this?

[Khu]

ARGHHH

I need to let my girlfriend down nicely, but she's having all this drama with school and shizz...and I was planning to sometime now since it's 6 months away from her actual exams, but now situation's gone FUBAR and she's had parent teacher interviews and reports...how do I let her down nicely? Just tell her that I have no fucking idea how this will work after this year!? Because this year is already pretty fucked up already...we have two totally different groups of friends, and thus we spend very little time together, combined with our studies and shizz... blarhdlkhjlgkj @_@

[Hasumi]

I need to let my girlfriend down nicely, but she's having all this drama with school and shizz...and I was planning to sometime now since it's 6 months away from her actual exams, but now situation's gone FUBAR and she's had parent teacher interviews and reports...how do I let her down nicely? Just tell her that I have no fucking idea how this will work after this year!? Because this year is already pretty fucked up already...we have two totally different groups of friends, and thus we spend very little time together, combined with our studies and shizz... blarhdlkhjlgkj @_@

i guess it would be pointless to ask if you're sure about that

so assuming you are

i can tell you this bro, based on my experience

if you try to sound too nice while you're letting them down, they won't take it well

i guess it could be different, but this is what i learned

of course it's a given to do it in person

[Last Sinner]

The best you can do is to be honest. It isn't going to be pretty and both of you will feel crap in the short term. But if the two of you have moved that far apart and are barely together anymore, just explain how you feel and that you think it's best that the two of you split. Don't sugarcoat it or beat around the bush. Just say it as it is so that she won't hate you in the long term.

[Hasumi]

Don't sugarcoat it or beat around the bush. Just say it as it is so that she won't hate you in the long term.

exactly, though don't say anything like:

"Hey babe, let's break up."

[Tsuyoshi]

Originally Posted by Khu

ARGHHH

I need to let my girlfriend down nicely, but she's having all this drama with school and shizz...and I was planning to sometime now since it's 6 months away from her actual exams, but now situation's gone FUBAR and she's had parent teacher interviews and reports...how do I let her down nicely? Just tell her that I have no fucking idea how this will work after this year!? Because this year is already pretty fucked up already...we have two totally different groups of friends, and thus we spend very little time together, combined with our studies and shizz... blarhdlkhjlgkj @_@

Better to break the news to her now than to hold it off. The longer you wait, the harder it becomes for both of you, and the more at risk you'll be of losing contact with her at all. I should know.

[Khu]

Originally Posted by Da_Box

i guess it would be pointless to ask if you're sure about that

I have to. Otherwise it'll just get worse down the road. I'd rather end the relationship on a happier note than an argument later.

[ChainLegacy]

Originally Posted by RadiantBeam

Hm, mixed feelings all around on this subject. I suppose I want to share it just to get it off my chest.

I was eating breakfast this morning when my mom happened to inform me that my first love is now apparently engaged. I don't know all of the details, but it seems one of our high school friends was deported, and he offered to marry her to keep her in the States. That failed, but he still proposed to her anyway and says that in two years he's hoping to raise enough money to bring her back. His parents are fully supportive of this.

I am rather.... hm. I can't put it into words. On one hand I really shouldn't care; it's been two years since I last spoke to him, and I don't have the right to comment on his choices. On the other hand, though, I'm shocked that he did this, and, I admit... a little bit hurt.

Heh. Seems he only really ever had his heart in the right place when I wasn't involved.

In any event, my mom has invited him to my sister's graduation party in July. That should be.... fun.

Would his presence at the party make you uncomfortable? I'm puzzled by that part, why is he invited? Family friend? Just seems kind of weird to me your mom would put you in that situation, but I don't know the whole story behind it so I might have the wrong impression.

[Sumeragi]

Originally Posted by Khu

ARGHHH

I need to let my girlfriend down nicely, but she's having all this drama with school and shizz...and I was planning to sometime now since it's 6 months away from her actual exams, but now situation's gone FUBAR and she's had parent teacher interviews and reports...how do I let her down nicely? Just tell her that I have no fucking idea how this will work after this year!? Because this year is already pretty fucked up already...we have two totally different groups of friends, and thus we spend very little time together, combined with our studies and shizz... blarhdlkhjlgkj @_@

Break it ASAP, or at least say you need time to reevaluate your relationship, and wish to no longer be committed.

[Kafriel]

Originally Posted by Khu

ARGHHH

I need to let my girlfriend down nicely, but she's having all this drama with school and shizz...and I was planning to sometime now since it's 6 months away from her actual exams, but now situation's gone FUBAR and she's had parent teacher interviews and reports...how do I let her down nicely? Just tell her that I have no fucking idea how this will work after this year!? Because this year is already pretty fucked up already...we have two totally different groups of friends, and thus we spend very little time together, combined with our studies and shizz... blarhdlkhjlgkj @_@

Bring it up on Khu day. Khu day starts with a Khu who didn't wake up well, and is really bothered by something...so when she asks what it is, take the most serious, grim look you can come up with and tell her you're breaking up with her (insert [...] here to get a why out of her). Then either bring out your disappointment and negative view of your potential relationship, or throw a tantrum if you cba to explain.

I have to. Otherwise it'll just get worse down the road. I'd rather end the relationship on a happier note than an argument later.

I've NEVER heard of a relationship ending on a note that resembles "happy" in any way. Be prepared, even if you break up there are always things you're better off keeping to yourself.

@ RB: Don't care. Not as in, -I- don't care, I'm addressing you not to care about him. Of course even though I say that, sometimes it's hard to look over certain things or people in life; should that be the case, you might want to find something to focus on, so as not to think of him.

I was eating breakfast this morning when my mom happened to inform me that my first love is now apparently engaged.

Ok, I'll just rudely type my thoughts...how did she find out? Don't answer this one if you don't want to :P

I admit... a little bit hurt.

There are some wounds even time has trouble healing, having found myself in a similar situation of inevitable sorrow knocking on my door, forget about it for now, it's just better to deal with it when that time comes.