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GenjiChan · 2012-10-01, 20:56

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Originally Posted by blaze0041

A question of my own:
Notepad offers four encoding options when saving a text file: ANSI, Unicode, Unicode big endian, and UTF-8.
Are there any differences between the last three, if any?

I seen this Differentiation and some FAQs

I'm not in explaining....

Krytonis · 2012-10-02, 00:51

I was wondering, in the Spring 2012 Banner Contest it says:

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[*]Duration of Rotation: June to July 2012 (prioritized rotation by votes) (and in the future as well)

Am I getting the wrong idea or is the system a bit outdated?

Terrestrial Dream · 2012-10-02, 16:41

Does anyone, especially people that speak a language that is highly formal, feel awkward when saying or typing you to people that are older?

Sumeragi · 2012-10-02, 16:44

In English?

Terrestrial Dream · 2012-10-02, 16:52

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Originally Posted by Sumeragi

In English?

In English mostly.

Sumeragi · 2012-10-02, 16:55

No, I don't feel uncomfortable at all, but that's because I give proper respect when I initially speak with that person.

Terrestrial Dream · 2012-10-02, 17:03

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Originally Posted by Sumeragi

No, I don't feel uncomfortable at all, but that's because I give proper respect when I initially speak with that person.

For me even calling you "you" is very awkward, because of fact that I know I am younger.

Dextro · 2012-10-02, 17:55

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Originally Posted by Terrestrial Dream

For me even calling you "you" is very awkward, because of fact that I know I am younger.

I can understand that fact since it's very normal for us Portuguese to address anyone that we don't know and isn't visibly younger by using what we call the "3rd person" ("você" - sir/madam in English) instead of the more intimate "2nd person" ("tu" - "you" in English or, since this is an anime forum, not using a suffix like -san in the Japanese language).

Curiously Brazilians tend to address people mostly using the "3rd person" ("você") even amongst friends.

DonQuigleone · 2012-10-02, 19:06

There is polite speech in English. The customary thing is to address an older man as Sir, and an older woman as Madam(the Customary letter thus being "Dear Sir or Madam"). There are variations, in the American South it's "Ma'am". You can also use Miss (which sounds a lot less stuffy then Madam).

If you want to feel polite, just address them as "Sir". Though English has been trending towards loosening these kind of things. I use Sir fairly often with strangers.

In terms of using "you", you'll be fine if you say something like "How would you like that, Sir?"

Terrestrial Dream · 2012-10-02, 19:41

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Originally Posted by DonQuigleone

There is polite speech in English. The customary thing is to address an older man as Sir, and an older woman as Madam(the Customary letter thus being "Dear Sir or Madam"). There are variations, in the American South it's "Ma'am". You can also use Miss (which sounds a lot less stuffy then Madam).

If you want to feel polite, just address them as "Sir". Though English has been trending towards loosening these kind of things. I use Sir fairly often with strangers.

In terms of using "you", you'll be fine if you say something like "How would you like that, Sir?"

Well Sir or Madam for sounds too formal, at that point it doesn't seem very sincere.

Kimidori · 2012-10-02, 19:50

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Originally Posted by Terrestrial Dream

For me even calling you "you" is very awkward, because of fact that I know I am younger.

guess you asian? I came from an asian country where you have different word to address older and younger people but I don't feel awkward when use "you" to address older people at all, neither do people younger than me feel awkward when address me using it. maybe it because of in my country, it is taught in school that the word "you" cover all the word you use to address older and younger people.

Heck, in my language, you even have to use different word address yourself when talking to older or younger people but again, it is taught in school that the word "I" cover it all.

and each language have their own difference from eachother, I don't think native english speaker feel awkward at all when use "you" to adress older people.

GenjiChan · 2012-10-03, 02:15

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Originally Posted by Sumeragi

No, I don't feel uncomfortable at all, but that's because I give proper respect when I initially speak with that person.

Yup, but even in non formal occasions I still address people by Maam or Sir that is if I don't know their name or we are not that close enough yet.

DonQuigleone · 2012-10-03, 04:44

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Originally Posted by GenjiChan

Yup, but even in non formal occasions I still address people by Maam or Sir that is if I don't know their name or we are not that close enough yet.

I usually address most strangers as Sir or Miss too. It's not awkward. If I know someone's name, however, I'd user [first name] or Mr. [Last name]. Though the latter isn't really popular any more.

TinyRedLeaf · 2012-10-03, 06:00

Polite children address me, in English, as "Uncle".

That said, it would be incredibly rude for them to say, "Hey you, (old man)".

GenjiChan · 2012-10-03, 06:23

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Originally Posted by TinyRedLeaf

Polite children address me, in English, as "Uncle".

That said, it would be incredibly rude for them to say, "Hey you, (old man)".

You're luckier, Sir. In my age, I'm being address as "Kuya" ( Elder Brother in Filipino) but in fact they're older than me!!!

SaintessHeart · 2012-10-03, 07:09

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Originally Posted by TinyRedLeaf

Polite children address me, in English, as "Uncle".

That said, it would be incredibly rude for them to say, "Hey you, (old man)".

Gievn your age shouldn't you get used to it...*runs*

I worked at a music school once and I have most of the students call me "kor-kor", hokkien for "onii-chan". Their parents call me "xiao-di", or little boy.

Formality is often an indication of professionalism, but sometimes being too service-oriented can result in a personal touch being formed.

TinyRedLeaf · 2012-10-03, 07:14

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Originally Posted by SaintessHeart

I worked at a music school once and I have most of the students call me "kor-kor", hokkien for "onii-chan". Their parents call me "xiao-di", or little boy.

I prefer to be called yan dao ("handsome", in Hokkien).

Yes, flattery will get you everywhere.

SaintessHeart · 2012-10-03, 07:41

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Originally Posted by TinyRedLeaf

I prefer to be called yan dao ("handsome", in Hokkien).

Yes, flattery will get you everywhere.

That is why I have an address system when I work at service lines :

-Da-jie (big sis) for any female older than me, (30+)
-Xiao-jie (young lady) for any female around my age (25+)
-Xiao-mei (little girl) for any female looking younger than me (16+), usually just to annoy then say "Well you look older than 18, but you don't look as though you have reached the voting age yet." Never fails to placate or get a dere reaction from them.
-Da ge (big brother) for males older than me, Uncle as a standard for the greying (they seem to like it because it signifies a personal respect for the elders I think)
-Sir or Xian-Sheng (Mister) for every other male around my age.

Yan dao is specifically reserved for those who want to pick an argument and make my work difficult.

Actually being called "kor-kor" makes my skin crawl, but having girls younger than me call me that make me want to help them out in any way I can.

DonQuigleone · 2012-10-03, 07:47

This is all waaay too complicated.

I just call everyone sir, or miss. And I remember my Pleases, Thank Yous and Excuse Mes. "Excuse me Sir, do you need anything?" Doesn't matter if they're 5 or 65, same thing.

Actually, more casually I call anyone my age or younger "kid". Means I don't have to remember names...

GenjiChan · 2012-10-03, 07:49

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Originally Posted by DonQuigleone

I just call everyone sir, or miss. And I remember my Pleases, Thank Yous and Excuse Mes. "Excuse me Sir, do you need anything?" Doesn't matter if they're 5 or 65, same thing.

It's respectful and pretty safe to use...

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DonQuigleone Knight Errant Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Dublin, Ireland Age: 24	There is polite speech in English. The customary thing is to address an older man as Sir, and an older woman as Madam(the Customary letter thus being "Dear Sir or Madam"). There are variations, in the American South it's "Ma'am". You can also use Miss (which sounds a lot less stuffy then Madam). If you want to feel polite, just address them as "Sir". Though English has been trending towards loosening these kind of things. I use Sir fairly often with strangers. In terms of using "you", you'll be fine if you say something like "How would you like that, Sir?"

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DonQuigleone Knight Errant Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Dublin, Ireland Age: 24	This is all waaay too complicated. I just call everyone sir, or miss. And I remember my Pleases, Thank Yous and Excuse Mes. "Excuse me Sir, do you need anything?" Doesn't matter if they're 5 or 65, same thing. Actually, more casually I call anyone my age or younger "kid". Means I don't have to remember names...