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Old 2012-11-12, 18:46   Link #10861
DonQuigleone
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Learn to be happy in your own self. You shouldn't need someone else, instead the someone else should make me you happier, but the lack of them shouldn't make you unhappy.

As for your ex, she doesn't love you, you deserve better. Move on, you don't need you, and she's just bringing you down.
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Old 2012-11-13, 02:57   Link #10862
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It's not really doubting my self worth, more just missing a companion. She just reminded me of past times, lol.
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Old 2012-12-12, 22:42   Link #10863
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Okay, guys... a friend of mine's in a tricky situation! Two friends of mine recently broke up because the boy cheated on his girlfriend. The girl didn't speak to him for a while, so I figured that she just decided to cut ties with him and move on with her life... but it seems she decided to go for revenge instead. A few nights ago she sent him a text message apologizing for ignoring him, and she said that she was bored and in the mood to roleplay through text (she and her boyfriend used to roleplay when they were dating, sometimes for sexy kinky fantasies and sometimes just for fun). What did she wish to roleplay about, you ask? Well, she told Ex-Boyfriend that she always thought it was erotic whenever bitter ex-lovers tried to win her back. She asked him to pretend to be a psycho jealous yandere ex-boyfriend and threaten to kill her unless she agreed to get back together with him. They roleplayed this scenario for a while. the next morning, she claimed to be embarrassed about her shenanigans the night before and asked him to delete all the texts he'd gotten from her.

This was all just setting him up for a trap, though! My girl friend (note the space that distinguishes it from 'girlfriend,' sorry yuri lovers), the ex-girlfriend I mean, told me about the whole thing this morning, and said that she's considering showing the threatening text messages to the police and pretending as though they were serious threats rather than just him playing a character in a roleplaying session. He also can't prove his innocence because he deleted all the texts from her where she asked him to roleplay such a thing. What do you guys think I should do? Should I try to tell her she's being cruel and try to talk her out of carrying out this revenge scheme? She says that she's thinking about enacting the plan on Christmas Day for maximum damage. Goodness, I guess the old saying about hell and scorned women is true...
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Old 2012-12-13, 00:00   Link #10864
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Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...

If she's threatening to call the police then I would recommend speaking with them (not via 911) about this issue prior to her having the opportunity to do so. That's kind of the "worst case scenario" bit but it's also something that seems necessary if it were to turn into a misuse of your local police force and a farce of a trial about fiction-based text messages. At the very least, be prepared to give a very strong statement that the boyfriend is not plotting to murder her and that she is not right in the mind.

Now don't get me wrong, cheating is not OK. But neither is being found guilty of perjury (lying in court, and that's only the most obvious thing that will happen to her if she goes through with it and gets discovered, which she will), or the even worse alternative of the boyfriend being imprisoned for sending her "threats" or for having planned out a "murder." At the end of the day I imagine that his service provider will have record of the dialogue and that evidence would make up for his lack of evidence.

With all of that in mind, you most definitely should discourage her. In fact, please discourage your friend.
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Old 2012-12-13, 00:21   Link #10865
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It's pretty easy for her to get caught. Just advise her not to be stupid. Also, avoid people who are stupid. I kid, but seriously, it's a bad move -- you'd best tell her not to do it.

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Old 2012-12-13, 00:39   Link #10866
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Revenge is not going to benefit anyone. Please, do tell your friend not to do it.
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Old 2012-12-13, 00:58   Link #10867
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I have to agree with everyone here, tell your friend that besides the fact that this would never work, there is not a single good thing that can come of it.
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Old 2012-12-13, 04:17   Link #10868
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As everyone already said: Discourage her. You might even want to discipline her (yuri-lover here)
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Old 2012-12-13, 09:09   Link #10869
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This was all just setting him up for a trap, though! My girl friend (note the space that distinguishes it from 'girlfriend,' sorry yuri lovers), the ex-girlfriend I mean, told me about the whole thing this morning, and said that she's considering showing the threatening text messages to the police and pretending as though they were serious threats rather than just him playing a character in a roleplaying session. He also can't prove his innocence because he deleted all the texts from her where she asked him to roleplay such a thing. What do you guys think I should do? Should I try to tell her she's being cruel and try to talk her out of carrying out this revenge scheme? She says that she's thinking about enacting the plan on Christmas Day for maximum damage. Goodness, I guess the old saying about hell and scorned women is true...
Your friend is a freaking idiot. Service providers keep records of that stuff. All the police have to do is subpoena them and they can get every text they sent, including the kinky ones.
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Old 2012-12-13, 10:51   Link #10870
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Your friend is a freaking idiot. Service providers keep records of that stuff. All the police have to do is subpoena them and they can get every text they sent, including the kinky ones.
This. It's not going to work. Tell her to back off if she doesn't want to look like an idiot, or worse. It's better to just move on. Nothing ever good comes out of revenge.
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Old 2012-12-13, 16:23   Link #10871
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I showed this page to my friend. She got angry and slapped me for sharing such a private thing online... then she hugged me and said thanks for caring about her. She's decided to ditch the whole revenge thing since it's more dangerous and less foolproof than she thought, and just move on with her life. Thanks, guys.
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Old 2012-12-13, 23:05   Link #10872
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Just make sure she dies ditch the idea! Not only could she be chad he'd with perjury, but sued for liable and slander by the ex-boyfriend!
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Old 2012-12-14, 13:47   Link #10873
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Walked around outside in Lululemon pants, saw a girl staring at my butt. Yeaaahh.. still got it

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Old 2012-12-16, 23:49   Link #10874
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Walked around outside in Lululemon pants, saw a girl staring at my butt. Yeaaahh.. still got it

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Unless there was a stain somewhere there...........................or your crack was showing..................

Haha, I'm just messing :P; thumbs up though!
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Old 2012-12-17, 11:57   Link #10875
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Unless there was a stain somewhere there...........................or your crack was showing..................

Haha, I'm just messing :P; thumbs up though!
Hmm, I notice it happens to me most often when I put my wallet in my backpocket
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Old 2012-12-17, 12:09   Link #10876
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Sounds like you found some gold diggers.
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Old 2012-12-17, 18:15   Link #10877
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Sounds like you found some gold diggers.


Are you saying they're not interested in me because I'm such a charming, witty, empathic and intelligent conversationalist?


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Old 2012-12-19, 14:59   Link #10878
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What's your opinion on overly attached girlfriends?
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Old 2012-12-19, 15:13   Link #10879
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What's your opinion on overly attached girlfriends?
The insecure or the possesive type of attachment?
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Old 2012-12-19, 15:14   Link #10880
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What do you mean by insecure attachment?
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