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GDB · 2012-12-13, 09:09

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Originally Posted by Ruby Princess

This was all just setting him up for a trap, though! My girl friend (note the space that distinguishes it from 'girlfriend,' sorry yuri lovers), the ex-girlfriend I mean, told me about the whole thing this morning, and said that she's considering showing the threatening text messages to the police and pretending as though they were serious threats rather than just him playing a character in a roleplaying session. He also can't prove his innocence because he deleted all the texts from her where she asked him to roleplay such a thing. What do you guys think I should do? Should I try to tell her she's being cruel and try to talk her out of carrying out this revenge scheme? She says that she's thinking about enacting the plan on Christmas Day for maximum damage. Goodness, I guess the old saying about hell and scorned women is true...

Your friend is a freaking idiot. Service providers keep records of that stuff. All the police have to do is subpoena them and they can get every text they sent, including the kinky ones.

Kanon · 2012-12-13, 10:51

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Originally Posted by GDB

Your friend is a freaking idiot. Service providers keep records of that stuff. All the police have to do is subpoena them and they can get every text they sent, including the kinky ones.

This. It's not going to work. Tell her to back off if she doesn't want to look like an idiot, or worse. It's better to just move on. Nothing ever good comes out of revenge.

Ruby Princess · 2012-12-13, 16:23

I showed this page to my friend. She got angry and slapped me for sharing such a private thing online... then she hugged me and said thanks for caring about her. She's decided to ditch the whole revenge thing since it's more dangerous and less foolproof than she thought, and just move on with her life. Thanks, guys.

Lost Cause · 2012-12-13, 23:05

Just make sure she dies ditch the idea! Not only could she be chad he'd with perjury, but sued for liable and slander by the ex-boyfriend!

willx · 2012-12-14, 13:47

Walked around outside in Lululemon pants, saw a girl staring at my butt. Yeaaahh.. still got it

Outlook is positive

barcode120x · 2012-12-16, 23:49

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Originally Posted by willx

Walked around outside in Lululemon pants, saw a girl staring at my butt. Yeaaahh.. still got it

Outlook is positive

Unless there was a stain somewhere there...........................or your crack was showing..................

Haha, I'm just messing :P; thumbs up though!

Nightbat® · 2012-12-17, 11:57

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Originally Posted by Scanner

Unless there was a stain somewhere there...........................or your crack was showing..................

Haha, I'm just messing :P; thumbs up though!

Hmm, I notice it happens to me most often when I put my wallet in my backpocket

GDB · 2012-12-17, 12:09

Sounds like you found some gold diggers.

Nightbat® · 2012-12-17, 18:15

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Originally Posted by GDB

Sounds like you found some gold diggers.

Are you saying they're not interested in me because I'm such a charming, witty, empathic and intelligent conversationalist?

Aqua Knight · 2012-12-19, 14:59

What's your opinion on overly attached girlfriends?

Nightbat® · 2012-12-19, 15:13

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Originally Posted by Aqua Knight

What's your opinion on overly attached girlfriends?

The insecure or the possesive type of attachment?

Aqua Knight · 2012-12-19, 15:14

What do you mean by insecure attachment?

Nightbat® · 2012-12-19, 15:55

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Originally Posted by Aqua Knight

What do you mean by insecure attachment?

Well, there's the type who thinks she owns you
and then there's the type that doesn't want to lose you

Aqua Knight · 2012-12-19, 16:16

I'd say kinda of possesive

Ledgem · 2012-12-19, 17:02

You want our opinions, but what for? Are you feeling unsure of your relationship?

Having a possessive partner... it really depends on the level of possessiveness, and it also depends on your expectations. It's not inherently good or bad.

DonQuigleone · 2012-12-20, 03:57

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Originally Posted by Aqua Knight

What's your opinion on overly attached girlfriends?

Some level of possessiveness is to be expected. However, it's important that you maintain independent lives. It's not healthy to spend too much time with one person. For one thing, you have all your other non-romantic relationships and friendships to consider, which are just as important as your romantic relationship. You also have to make time for yourself too(though how much you need depends on your temperament, I need lots of me time, other... not so much).

Aqua Knight · 2012-12-20, 05:40

Agreed, but I just can't understand when the possessive person doesn't understand when it's time to stop clinging (say per day).

Spending too much time together ruins the relationships from my POV (most of the time). That is when you only spend time together, but not with friends, etc.

PS
What does "moe" do in the tags of the thread

Ledgem · 2012-12-20, 07:27

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Originally Posted by DonQuigleone

It's not healthy to spend too much time with one person.

It's not healthy for one's overall mental health to be isolated and alone, but I haven't seen anything claiming that it's possible to spend an unhealthy amount of time with one person.

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Originally Posted by Aqua Knight

Spending too much time together ruins the relationships from my POV (most of the time). That is when you only spend time together, but not with friends, etc.

Everyone has a different expectation of how a relationship will go, and what's most important is that both members have similar expectations. Otherwise you'll get some conflict; in your case, you're feeling held down, but if your girlfriend lets you go off to do things as you wish, she'll probably feel neglected. It may be possible to negotiate and have both members adjust, but this is something that you should probably deal with sooner rather than later. Let your girlfriend know how you feel, but reassure her that you're not judging her, not finding her to be annoying, and that you want to make it work so that you're both happy. (Assuming you really do, anyway.)

GDB · 2012-12-20, 08:45

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Originally Posted by Ledgem

It's not healthy for one's overall mental health to be isolated and alone, but I haven't seen anything claiming that it's possible to spend an unhealthy amount of time with one person.

Bates Motel?

Ledgem · 2012-12-20, 10:18

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Originally Posted by GDB

Bates Motel?

I had to look this one up, as I wasn't familiar with it

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Ruby Princess Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Age: 23	I showed this page to my friend. She got angry and slapped me for sharing such a private thing online... then she hugged me and said thanks for caring about her. She's decided to ditch the whole revenge thing since it's more dangerous and less foolproof than she thought, and just move on with her life. Thanks, guys.

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Aqua Knight Senior Member Join Date: May 2009 Age: 20	Agreed, but I just can't understand when the possessive person doesn't understand when it's time to stop clinging (say per day). Spending too much time together ruins the relationships from my POV (most of the time). That is when you only spend time together, but not with friends, etc. PS What does "moe" do in the tags of the thread __________________ I can’t sleep tonight…fish girl, sing me a song!