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"A governor is photographed trysting with a transsexual by policemen who are later
arrested on extortion charges. There are two suspected murders and, oh yes, Premier Berlusconi figures as well." See: http://www.latimes.com/news/nation-a...,5062523.story Italian political scandals make the U.S. versions look tame. |
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Well that is very positive way to look at this.
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I learned that fighting with a bully usually ends bullying - though I've not been bullied very much in the first place, so this may not count for a lot. (doesn't matter if you win or loose, just make sure he could potentially be overwhelmed, and that you are someone who is going to take the gloves off - to sum it up - be convincing that you really mean it and that you put all effort in that fight without hesitating)
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Of course, I could have made the school a better place for the students by euthanising the relevant teachers who didn't like their jobs and refused to help the bullied students. Stalin was actually right despite all his wrong actions and thoughts in promoting communism : the "No man, no problem" actually worked on the micro scale.
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Well that happens.
I know that would have been a lot more effort, but you could have brought the "war" to each of their homes. Fighting each of them at their own homes would certainly gain some attention (from adults too). Of'course I know that such an idea cannot be more alien for someone who is bullied. But you even had some sort of legitimation, since your teacher told you to defend yourself - I would call this proactive defense. Quote:
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Or let me put it this way, it appears to be stupid to me, to fight for one's own freedom with means that definitly destroy one's own freedom. I am not against rather extreme means, but they have to be goal oriented and within a certain scope of proportionality: Noone should take any action that exceeds that which is necessary to achieve the objective.
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And at that age if I put a few rounds through their heads, I will just go to the juvenile court, then sent to a boys' home or mental institute. At least the rest of my life won't be marred by that experience. Quote:
Many often get caught up with the unpleasant occurrences in their lives, and become mentally incapacitated. Often these are the bystanders that look on at an accident and did not help or react negatively to it. I doubt there is a way to blame them for their inaction, but it certainly takes some willpower from the conscious mind to pull oneself out of the loop and do something. Quote:
Apparently the bullies and the teachers value their own life above others and quote it as self-preservation, but yet espouse in the open that life is sacrosanct. I don't mind hypocrites, but this kind of hypocrisy only spawn the kind of trash that make our society more messed up that it already is. Both the Columbine and the Virginia massacres brought attention to the problem of social vilification and marginalisation, but they are often diverted to indirectly related issue like gun ownership and such rather than the root. How many more innocent lives must be taken (most of the victims) and lost (the shooters) before the issue is corrected?
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One solution to this could be stricter rules for non-compliant citizens (I assume that is what the bullied person would prefer - it is not that I could not relate to that sort of thinking, being bullied myself for some time when I was 12-14 years old). However, I don't know in what kind of state you want to live - a micro managed police state that intervenes on all the non-compliant people? That regulates every little dispute, because the citizens are no longer able to handle these things themselves... (well lets cut it here) Or one could put a little bit more effort into socializing (and that might sound strange, tussling/brawling can be a part of this - in contrast killing someone is not considered socializing). So, in my oppinion there is only one answer to this - civil courage. Though, a school shooting is certainly not the best way to remind people of their civil courage. In the contrary it makes them more protective and self-preserving.
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If murder really did solve a lot of issues, then we wouldn't be seeing nor would human history have experienced countless times of endless cycles of revenge, hate, pain, misery and sadness at a loss of a life. I was bullied but didn't think once of wiping their lives of the planet, rather i thought them pathetic. 'Who the hell are they to control how i feel, what I want in life, when high school is over, to hell with them'. (That and sadly as a girl, beating the crap outta them wasn't allowed nor would i be able to stay in school for that amount of violence) Females are evil and work indirectly. However what does work is showing them fear. Be it sticking a gun down their throat in America and pulling an empty chamber until they wet themselves or letting them know that to bully will have serious consequences (which is the reason they do cause they can get away with it), is usually enough to make them stop. Making them feel worthless helps, but can be done without taking their lives.
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I think this discussion is getting a little serious for the silly news thread. :<
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The main problem with me is the inability to understand anyone from the emotional perspective, like asking questions during class (which my classmates hate because it extends the lessons and makes the teachers more alert to those who aren't listening). I actually LIKED going to school until the bullying started. Then I start to hate it because I asked the teachers for help, and they just stood there and then sent me for counselling. And when I skip school to avoid the lesson break and after school abuses, I was labelled as a problem child. The counsellor sent me to the asylum after I pointed a pen at his throat, and said, "This is the sharp object you are looking for, right?" when he was checking my bag for sharp objects, after which I was constantly sedated. But it didn't work obviously when my reply to "How are you feeling?" was "Like killing you.". The reason why we don't want to kill people is because we are drilled unconsciously by our society or religion that killing people is wrong. If killing people is wrong, is making them suffer right? I remember asking all my counsellors the same question when they quote religion, "Why do the Saracens and the Crusaders kill each other, when the sixth commandment is 'Thou shalt not murder?'" and similar questions that challenge their beliefs. They would usually come up with broken replies while their eyes are unfocused, or they would attempt to change the subject like "You are a very clever person....." or reverse the question on me "What is your answer?", which can be easily thrown back with "Don't digress. Answer my question." and "I asked you a question first, and I would appreciate it if you answer it." respectively. It wasn't fair to them that I am using basic MACV-SOG interrogation techniques (from a book I read a year ago) against them, but it somehow worked against those psychologists who don't know how to use NLP effectively. I eventually got out of that place by acting the way they want and giving them replies they want to hear. I should have just solved the taxpayers problem with the loose bedframe and killed the rest of the patients one by one.
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I'm guessing you went to an American school, which seems to be a society more focused on the whole 'let's talk about it and get some councelling' added with 'here's a magic pill to help' song and dance and filters into the educational system as well, so experiecing the run around that you did, does suck, sorry for unpleasant memories, however, it doesn't justify murder. Quote:
Suffering isn't a black and white issue such as murder. Once they're gone, they're gone, dead is dead and to lose the life at the hand of another without your permission nor free will is where it becomes wrong, in this case a life was stolen by another. Forget religious or any other rules, like i said, it if wasn't that big a deal, the negative consquences of murder wouldn't plague humanity for thousands of years. The act if it in itself brings pain, misery, anguish, hurt, despair (in most cases), there's nothing fun, happy or great about it, short of being a psychopath who actually enjoys it. Eitherway, since you think it fine to kill (not on about manslaughter such as taking a life while in midst of defending your own), but premeditated murder to resolve a problem that has alternatives, then I'll be keeping tabs on ya on the news then for when they slam your ass to jail. To add more news to the thread which derailing too much (think I'd have to drop a few notes on your profile wall if you wanna keep hashing it out, although it'd be til weekend for me) Mother nature's going all out on the shaking things about Strong earthquake hits eastern Turkey Quote:
Earthquake story was meant as a serious post, gomen....
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Besides, murder isn't a black and white issue either. Death caused in an act of self-defence isn't murder when the amount of force leading to the death is justified like rape. Pre-emptive strike is, but either way there is nothing much the legal system can do for the dead except to pick up the pieces then file the case away in some archive. Quote:
I have seen people who premediate crimes yet laugh their way in the court. They won because they did what they planned and bore the consequences. And they lived solely for that revenge and don't fear death because life in agony means nothing to them. Evidently these horrors have jaded them long enough to sour the rest of their life experiences. Premediated crime is like trading in a volatile stock market : risk control is directed at enacting the crime to achieve a desired outcome, not the consequence.
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It's a sad situation in all honestly. Why let others ruin the rest of your life, especially for a mere 2-3 years of your life, compared to the rest of your living period? High school ends, focus on your own goals and make the best for yourself, surrounding yourself with positive and supportive people along the way. Many humans face horrors that neither me or you can imagine, but pull out of it, bettering themselves and helping others along the way. They work to change a system or situation that drives people to feeling that desperate in the first place. Maybe you think of the same thing... In your case (my bad on mis-location of where you grew up), you still seem to feel/see the way of dealing with things is to take a life, which is a sad situation (more than anything) that you felt that far pushed when you were being bullied and non violent means of trying to solve the issue failed on you. I already mentioned manslaughter in my post, this crosses out your 'murder is not black and white', yes it is, hence it's called that, usually' 1st degree' by legal terms. And you gotta be kidding when you say 'rape is justifyable'. (Now, there's a can of worms I won't open, for fear of losing my temper or emotionally ripping into you). That, and if I continue to reply after this, I sense the dance of circles has began with you, so I'll drop it. Since it is the funny thread, sticking a piece of news that should be amusing... Canada drops national anthem change plan Quote:
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