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Honyaku no Hime
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: In the eastern capital of the islands of the rising suns...
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We're all out there trying our hardest, striving, struggling, hoping for the best, but we make sure to ground each other too. Just be aware of the good and bad and the worst cases. - I didn't state the good cause that's obvious. It's obvious that life isn't dealt in absolutes; it's obvious that when 60-70% of a situation is bad, 30-40% is good. It's obvious that there are typically two sides to it. It's obvious, Amray's gonna try to make this work through his troubles, however I don't agree when he said 'age doesn't matter' - during the teens I believe it does, and thus I gave an example of a situation when relationships last long from an early age, (I assume first loves too) and the other external factors that usually add grief to a couple with that age difference. My example is only just that: an example. To list all the possibilities would flood the forums, so there's no need for me to say the others, i just use words such as 'typically', 'in most cases' 'commonly', 'can', 'perhaps' - they're not absolutes. Quote:
'being a housewife is an ambition' Usually a full time one at that, especially once kids come into play too. But it feels you're so caught up with your defence when i'm not even attacking here, that anything i say in relation to my claim is gonna get a retaliation, so at this point, i won't add anything further to Amray's situation or regarding young girls getting together with older guys. I like dancing, but we've danced this dance before and circles are no fun. Quote:
(unless this definition got updated in the last 10 years, someone tell me) >.>
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2008-11-02, 03:48 | Link #882 | |
Emotionless White Face
Join Date: Feb 2008
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And so I wonder why he is so worried |
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2008-11-02, 03:57 | Link #884 |
Emotionless White Face
Join Date: Feb 2008
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Yes he is!
Sorry if what I said can be seen as mean. That wasn't my intention. I am pleasantly surprised. I don't know a lot of guys here who will be so worried for that, in most cases, they are worried only when they actually "did" it. |
2008-11-02, 07:08 | Link #885 |
Ah! Pretty Shining Love!
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Australia
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What is everyone's opinion on work place relations? At my casual job, I do customer service/retail, and there's a cafe integrated into our building, and I'm interested in the waitress there. I'm not sure if it's appropriate to just drop by and have a chat, especially if I'm not buying anything. Any comments?
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2008-11-02, 07:24 | Link #887 |
Honyaku no Hime
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: In the eastern capital of the islands of the rising suns...
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In bigger multinational organisations, some companies actually embed it as part of your contract, 'no relationships with another staff member' on the chance if it turns sour, it could jeopardise your work or motivation or make the atmosphere downright hostile.
- In more relaxed workplaces like the libraries (in my case) parents and kids, boyfriends and girlfriends have been known to work in the same branches or other ones, but relations of some sort are around. For a casual job such as yours, I’d say it's fine to go for a chat/ get a date. Just be aware that she's near ya if anything were to go wrong. If in doubt, you may wanna consult a higher staff member for advice
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2008-11-02, 08:18 | Link #889 | |
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: England
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If I were you I would much rather be single for a period of time until I find a girl that would accept me for who I am and respect me and my interests. If I was in a relationship with a girl that is likely to leave me because I like anime, then I would leave them first because I would think them foolish and petty. |
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2008-11-02, 08:32 | Link #890 | |
K-ON and Haruhi fan
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Norwich, England.
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So I'd much rather have a girl that I love due to her interests, rather than her looks. Personally. |
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2008-11-02, 08:34 | Link #891 |
Ehh I love suits?
Join Date: Oct 2008
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I've have a natural radar that beeps every time I see girl that may have similar interests with me.
When I'm talking to a gorgeus girl and the beeper does not beep, I do not worry about my appearance at all, since I have no sexual interest of the girl. It's kind of weird, yea. |
2008-11-02, 08:58 | Link #892 | |
Honyaku no Hime
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Join Date: May 2008
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And so kakashi learns not to make a joke in a thread were people are giving genuine advice and taking each post seriously - I think Ledgem was the only one who caught onto that tbh...
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2008-11-02, 09:16 | Link #893 | |
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Anyway it does not matter, that can just be counted as some advise from me just in case somebody is actually going through with a relationship similar to that. I doubt that it has never happened. Some people do have relationships with people that would threaten to leave them for stupid reasons. That is not a sign of love at all, so my advise would be to leave them. |
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2008-11-02, 09:32 | Link #894 | |
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Australia,Queensland
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And yeah kakashi.. there is a time and place for everything |
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2008-11-02, 09:40 | Link #896 | |
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Location: England
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Put simply, yes. It varies though. People that are actually involved in an easy and happy, love-filled relationship are simply very lucky. |
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2008-11-02, 15:29 | Link #898 | |
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: California
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edit: only if you choose the wrong person pal. ^ |
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2008-11-02, 18:23 | Link #899 | |
Honyaku no Hime
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But 9/10 seems to be extreme no? lol Rather think of what the relationship brought to each person's life rather than the outcome. They're a lot of hard work, that's what pple don't realise. After the initial rush of lust, excitement and giddiness, when years start settling in (this is based if you're livin with someone or see them almost everyday) - Then it's for both peeps to make the extra effort to communicate, to keep things interesting, to discuss and support. Perhaps more often than not, some element doesn't happen and thus people split or drift apart, who knows. But you gotta try You go into a relationship with faith that'll it work, (not just with relationships, but anything in life tbh) Else what would be the point of living?
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2008-11-02, 19:58 | Link #900 | ||
World's Greatest
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Location: San Francisco
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No we didn't go the full distance. I don't I would have let that happen. As far as the actual incident goes, yeah I guess you can just consider me too "nice" of a guy.
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