2009-04-08, 13:43 | Link #1081 | |
Imouto-Chan♥
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Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: England
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and when I was dating him he was always calling me asking me who I was with and my friend told me that he was scared about me cheating on him he was really paranoid about that!
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2009-04-09, 00:20 | Link #1082 | |
I don't give a damn, dude
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: In Despair
Age: 37
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Ok well, I'd think this one is obvious; this boy is bad news. You do NOT want to be stuck with him for long; extreme paranoia is a relationship killer for the most part, and even if you continue to pursue one with him, that paranoia is just going to make you miserable. Plus, he's virtually two-timing you and your friend in front of the both of you here, so yes, he's no good. Break with him ASAP. If you can, get your friend out of this mess too; if it looks impossible, just run to save yourself. :x |
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2009-04-09, 04:05 | Link #1084 | |
Protecting the Throne
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2009-04-09, 04:33 | Link #1085 | ||
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IMO, i dont think he's particularly trustworthy if you are looking for a serious relationship. He should have broke off with his gf before going after you. Sounds like he's hedging his bet with his current gf if you rejected him.
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2009-04-09, 08:25 | Link #1086 | ||||
Imouto-Chan♥
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Thanks for all your replies you have helped imouto-chan very much!
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2009-04-09, 08:58 | Link #1087 | |
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2009-04-09, 09:02 | Link #1088 | ||
I don't give a damn, dude
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2009-04-09, 09:14 | Link #1089 | |||
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2009-04-09, 10:04 | Link #1090 |
Protecting the Throne
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@Miko Miko
Well good luck with whatever choice you make. If you wanna gain more understanding about your situation or if you need help figuring out how to solve it, just put yourself in your friend's shoes. I'm pretty sure you'll do what's best. And don't worry about the intuition thing. Every girl has it inside em. Just trust yourself.
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2009-04-09, 11:18 | Link #1091 | |
Imouto-Chan♥
Graphic Designer
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: England
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Thanks. I hope I make the right choice and I will be able to make that choice once I stop being grounded. Thanks again for all your help and advice
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2009-04-09, 11:59 | Link #1092 |
Hige
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: God only knows
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Today, when i had to go somewhere by train, cause my car is in repair.
It was crazy. ONLY couples. I was the only one single there. I felt a little lonely. Anyone wants to be my girlfriend? Rhetoric question. not serious.
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2009-04-10, 12:38 | Link #1093 | ||
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Where you can get away with outlandish behavior, you will do outlandish flirting, and conversely, where only propriety is acceptable, you will not be able to do but only the most subtle flirting (if at all). A good example being very staunch Muslim countries. In most Western countries, however, the amount and styles of flirting runs the gamut. In London, I wouldn't be considered a playboy at all. The furthest I would go in describing myself is...confident? But not always. When I decide to go for a girl that's how I behave, but in general I'm more conservative. It's kinda like a switch. Quote:
You are right that if he's just doing it as a sort of trick, and that's not how the guy really feels, it will inevitably catch up to them and the girl will get hurt. |
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2009-04-10, 15:31 | Link #1095 | |
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Location: Between a rock and a hard place.
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2009-04-11, 22:10 | Link #1096 | |
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I was really impressed that you did things like that i quoted even you are living in western countries. Those were even shocking to me, so wanted to know how you are thinking about such behaviors. But you have your view in that the behaviors are related to the culture , and those are not only for catching women, those are natural things you do in your way to get along with women . i am relieved to hear that. ^^ Thanks for explaining again
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2009-04-11, 23:49 | Link #1097 |
I asked for this
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Winterfell
Age: 35
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Or more like, on which girl does it even work on? Seriously, If a guy did that to me, I'd think he is seriously challenged. Sounds like a thing you'd read in a bad how-to-date guidebook or something. Seriously, no offense, but that really got me to go WTFBBQ. If he'd just say I have nice boobs or something, but hair? That's a whole new lvl of flattery there
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2009-04-12, 01:07 | Link #1099 | |
Bearly Legal
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I manage to get a girl to perm her hair cause i told her she looks very pretty with it.
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2009-04-12, 01:18 | Link #1100 |
I asked for this
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Winterfell
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That is an entirely different situation though. You basically told her how she could improve, according to your tastes. If a girl does that to please you, then she is practically "yours", or was already to begin with.
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