2011-02-20, 03:45 | Link #2191 |
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God no. That would be horrible. No man should have to wait till marriage. I mean marriage is just some stupid made up ceremony in the first place.
He should get her to really trust him. And then they should have sex. Lots of it, continuously. And they should talk about it and keep things open. And they'll have a nice healthy relationship. But if she keeps Utsumi waiting it's just being evil! |
2011-02-20, 04:20 | Link #2192 | |
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Back to normal posting: Point 1 is rather debatable or at least its different to each individual depending on their perception and upbringing. If there was consent and mutual understanding between couples before or after marriage either case is fine. But would all this talk about sex and marriage solve her problems? |
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2011-02-20, 16:16 | Link #2197 | |
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2011-02-20, 16:51 | Link #2198 |
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Don't. Been there, done the whole moral christian thing. It's all bollocks. Whether you are ready to have sex or not comes down to two things, trust and maturity. having a ring on your finger doesn't change anything.
Anyway as long as they do it right and don't stupidly rush into it I don't see the issue. Of course Yuki is going to have hangups about it initially and Utsumi will be in a precarious position where he cannot push too strong as that will just reawaken the fear that he is going to do what Touru did (this is a big issue as Yuki had known and trusted Touru for years and yet he had betrayed her, which begs the question how the hell can Utsumi amass even more trust than this... it would probably be easier to take some of the blame for what happened to Yuki off Touru.... But then again it doesn't seem like she blames herself so much for having sex with him as she does for trusting him in the first place. I dunno here I guess we will see). However at the same time Utsumi is only going to get frustrated and more tempted if he can't get any. I mean the relationship needs SOME physical aspects to it. He's not just attracted to her mind but to her body also. Anyway I look forward to seeing how SK tackles this. Willing to bet though that they don't end up waiting till marriage (call it a hunch but from what I've seen of this manga it seems very unlikely) |
2011-02-20, 17:35 | Link #2199 |
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I don't see it happening anytime soon, but I guess you can dream all you want. Before anything physical is going to happen. The Touru affair has to be completely resolved and it's not. Also I don't see Utsumi being the pushy type just because he's got blue balls...
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2011-02-20, 17:40 | Link #2200 | |
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