Dating

[TakutoKun]

Originally Posted by aki/kaze/shi

Un, I actually find it easy to say to someone my feelings.^^' But most of the time, they think I'm joking. Which can be good. Sometimes. XD Although, it only happened once. I did go out with two other guys, but somehow broke ones heart and everyone laughed at him, and the other I just began to dislike.^^' But I sorta hate people, and am not used to having friends or anything now. Eheh, but I thought that maybe I could try to find someone again, but it just doesn't seem to be me. So I guess I'll just remain with feelings towards one person until someone can cross the border line. (or something.^^' It was something my mom read to me that fit me. And I can't remember it.)

Heh, but I'm still just a kid. And the type who doesn't change easily. So, yeah.^^' Who woulda thought the first girl to hit puberty in her grade would be like this. XD Aw well.^^'

You sound like a real "heart-breaker."

That and that's more than "we" need to know! :P J/K

[Diaboso]

well some times the person who is out of your league becomes some one who realy is in a league below you. take what I said as you may because I meant many things by it.

[Zero Shinohara]

Telling others about your feelings, huh? Yeah, I tried that a couple of times, and was badly shaken off in all of them.

I mean, I've always been a chicken around girls. Too much anime, probably, as my image of "The Guy" is always the cool type who has the girl confessing first. Trust me, doesn't work. Sixth grade was like that. I really liked a girl in my class, and perhaps she did like me as well, and we would've been probably really good friends if I didn't start ignoring her right after I took the first step.

Eight grade was the last straw, though. It happens when you start liking a HS sophomore who thinks she's so high and mighty, gather all the Gai-sensei courage to confess to her and all she does is laugh merrily at you and throw a half-smile back. Two months of trying to get her attention were enough to piss me off, and so I never let myself show that weak, pathetic side of me again. You could say I'm a McGuiver+Chuck Norris hybrid, just with a bit of a Jackie-Chan "I do all my own stunts" type.

If you didn't make any sense of that, then there's still hope for you.

[Kyuusai]

Originally Posted by Zero Shinohara

Telling others about your feelings, huh? Yeah, I tried that a couple of times, and was badly shaken off in all of them.

I mean, I've always been a chicken around girls. Too much anime, probably, as my image of "The Guy" is always the cool type who has the girl confessing first. Trust me, doesn't work. Sixth grade was like that. I really liked a girl in my class, and perhaps she did like me as well, and we would've been probably really good friends if I didn't start ignoring her right after I took the first step.

Eight grade was the last straw, though. It happens when you start liking a HS sophomore who thinks she's so high and mighty, gather all the Gai-sensei courage to confess to her and all she does is laugh merrily at you and throw a half-smile back. Two months of trying to get her attention were enough to piss me off, and so I never let myself show that weak, pathetic side of me again. You could say I'm a McGuiver+Chuck Norris hybrid, just with a bit of a Jackie-Chan "I do all my own stunts" type.

If you didn't make any sense of that, then there's still hope for you.

For most people, romance doesn't become truly viable until well into adulthood, and adulthood these days seems to be coming during the mid-twenties, at earliest. Don't sweat anything that happened before you're legally able to run for congress.

[Reno]

Originally Posted by Marina

I think you quoted the wrong quote... or perhaps you did quote the right one, and if so, it's not like I wouldn't say anything. I'd just try to relate to him that what he was doing was inappropriate without being mean about it.

Nah I did quote the right thing. What I meant was, you should ALWAYS be honest with someone, because it might hurt them even more in the long run.

[psycho bolt]

Originally Posted by Kyuusai

For most people, romance doesn't become truly viable until well into adulthood, and adulthood these days seems to be coming during the mid-twenties, at earliest. Don't sweat anything that happened before you're legally able to run for congress.

Hehe, they are still at the bench waiting for their first swing.

[Ascaloth]

Originally Posted by Zero Shinohara

Telling others about your feelings, huh? Yeah, I tried that a couple of times, and was badly shaken off in all of them.

I mean, I've always been a chicken around girls. Too much anime, probably, as my image of "The Guy" is always the cool type who has the girl confessing first. Trust me, doesn't work. Sixth grade was like that. I really liked a girl in my class, and perhaps she did like me as well, and we would've been probably really good friends if I didn't start ignoring her right after I took the first step.

Eight grade was the last straw, though. It happens when you start liking a HS sophomore who thinks she's so high and mighty, gather all the Gai-sensei courage to confess to her and all she does is laugh merrily at you and throw a half-smile back. Two months of trying to get her attention were enough to piss me off, and so I never let myself show that weak, pathetic side of me again. You could say I'm a McGuiver+Chuck Norris hybrid, just with a bit of a Jackie-Chan "I do all my own stunts" type.

If you didn't make any sense of that, then there's still hope for you.

You're probably on the right track for the first case, IMHO. What you should have done is take the first step, ignore her, and then the third step that you didn't take: REPEAT. Girls are pretty damned intrigued by mixed signals.

Try it out, and see if it works. And if it does.....I hope you know when to turn off the "mixed signals" and go for it for real.

[aki/kaze/shi]

Originally Posted by matradley

You sound like a real "heart-breaker."

That and that's more than "we" need to know! :P J/K

Eh he he he.^^' Well, one guy wanted to give me a rose, and I got sick, and went home before he could give it. Then everyone saw it and laughed at him. Then when I came back, people were crowding me, and he was trying to explain, but I sorta walked away not caring and everyone laughed more. So he burnt it.^^'

Ehee, it's OK. I usually say more than I need to.^^'

[Fome]

Originally Posted by aki/kaze/shi

Eh he he he.^^' Well, one guy wanted to give me a rose, and I got sick, and went home before he could give it. Then everyone saw it and laughed at him. Then when I came back, people were crowding me, and he was trying to explain, but I sorta walked away not caring and everyone laughed more. So he burnt it.^^'

Ehee, it's OK. I usually say more than I need to.^^'

Your schoolmates sound immature.

[aki/kaze/shi]

Originally Posted by Fome

Your schoolmates sound immature.

Un, they are.^^' And they say I'm worse. I just act younger. I didn't really care, and I didn't like being questioned since I wasn't there. I'm also the shy person. But my attitude is cold. But I walked away because I could care less. He didn't seem pestered by it at least, but I think he was more worried I would never talk to him again. I told him it was fine later, and it didn't bother me. Just as long as he doesn't do it this year again. -_-# That'll make bout three years he's tried giving me presents. I don't want any of it. I was hoping he'd go for someone else. Maybe I'm immature? It doesn't bother me if I am.^^'

[2H-Dragon]

Ah dating. Dunno If I posted here before, but here's the situation I'm in now. Getting a girlfriend is easy. Getting one you like is another. I'm not going in the cesspool called love, since I only think it happens after effort and staying together for a long time. Just going on dates is boring am past that stage also sex is overrated.

Yes I do want a girlfriend. For various reasons, mainly because I need someone to talk to and also have physical affection for. Kinda like a best friend you can like in the love love kinda way. Problem; my standards seem to be too high and I don't feel like lowering it any time soon. Prob get a hot girl while exiting, it has a high value of been there done that feel. Interest don't coincide and so no matter how fun at first it gets boring real fast. Get an average looking girl with personality. Relation lasts longer, but then you look at other girls you feel bad for comparing her to others. And it ends in the meh kinda way leaving you feeling guilty. You also have a feeling of I can stay with her for life, but she isn't that special tbh so you bail out. Oh and most of the time lacks confidence and gets jealous real fast about female friends.

That and I tend to dislike clingy girls. Sometimes I just want to stay home alone and game and whatnot. Or hang out with friends. Most girls don't seem to understand that.

Also the perfect ones have freaking boyfriends and I am not going to break up a relationship just to try and see if she's the one.

So all I can do and w8 till I'm in that age group where everyone is mature and the average ones start to look nicer. The hot ones start to get less bitchy and get some common sense.

I know I am stereotyping a lot, but hey I haven't seen much exceptions.

edit: Hmm after rereading it. I feel stupid. Meh what I wrote is kinda bs. What I'm trying to say. It's hard to find a girl you really really like.

[anti-random]

Thats so true 2H-Dragon, guys can really associate with that (well I can).

[lenneal]

HOLY CRAP i just realized i havent had a gf since i was in the 5th grd im in the 12th grd btw i dont kno maybe girls dont like me cuz i hang out with an odd group of ppl who r really kool friends but my friends alsop havent had gf in a long time or never had one maybe where just uncool...idk but i tried asking out this girl who was in my class and she said get out of my face freak so i guess im destined to be alone.for now any way

[TakutoKun]

Originally Posted by lenneal

HOLY CRAP i just realized i havent had a gf since i was in the 5th grd im in the 12th grd btw i dont kno maybe girls dont like me cuz i hang out with an odd group of ppl who r really kool friends but my friends alsop havent had gf in a long time or never had one maybe where just uncool...idk but i tried asking out this girl who was in my class and she said get out of my face freak so i guess im destined to be alone.for now any way

Take your time - you are still young. Just focus on your career path and setting up your life for the future. Things will fall in place.

[Dkong1026]

2H Dragon- so true. so. true.

[anti-random]

Originally Posted by matradley

Take your time - you are still young. Just focus on your career path and setting up your life for the future. Things will fall in place.

That's some good advice, I'll take it on board

[Kyomi]

It's seriously something to consider, I wish i'd been more serious in my studies and less about girls back in HS. >.> I guess I just went along with the social concept of having a Girlfriend, though I realize now it was for the worst. =/

[Nintendo]

learn it young before your 24 questioning if you made a wise choice in lifestyle.

[Papaya]

Originally Posted by lenneal

HOLY CRAP i just realized i havent had a gf since i was in the 5th grd im in the 12th grd btw i dont kno maybe girls dont like me cuz i hang out with an odd group of ppl who r really kool friends but my friends alsop havent had gf in a long time or never had one maybe where just uncool...idk but i tried asking out this girl who was in my class and she said get out of my face freak so i guess im destined to be alone.for now any way

Unless you're planning to fail, senior year is probably the worst to be looking for fresh relationships. Well, also, I guess, unless you're looking for a quick fix before your run your ass off to college.

I met my girlfriend in 12th grade. First thing she said to me the night I met yer (before we started dating) was "hey my friend needs a date to the prom." So I said "it's not worth going to if it's not with you"... SMOOTH AMIRITE?
Anyways, about that senior year thing, now we don't go to the same college... hell, I happened to move this summer, and now I live a few thousand miles away from her (but still go to college about 200 miles away). Still going strong though.

Best advice I can give is to be her friend before being her boyfriend. You can tell if someone's in love with you. My style has never been to explore the "likers". Go for the lovers. If she really likes you, you should be able to tell. If it's just a crush, well, usually it's not worth it.

[lenneal]

woah thx for the advice ppl =)