2007-12-03, 19:20 | Link #243 |
An Intellectual Idiot
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: The Internet, ranging from the World of Warcraft------Deviantart----and much more!..My mostly WoW
Age: 31
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...Ok....I asked her out...she said no...We started talking at lunch..we became good friends.....About a year or so past, I became one of her best friends and vise versa...then she asked me out...Nothing really more to it....I acted like myself....
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2007-12-03, 19:43 | Link #244 |
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Right now i dun care even if im 22 or 42, if im gonna find a girl, i dont care, even if shes 14, im gonna get her, and ill do what ever hell i can to get her.
Well i used to become crazy for this girl when she was 14, i was 20 and i saw the age difference, so i didint persue her, but i saw that girl once and i cant get her out of my head. I went out with other girls and was just half hearted and i just gave up on them, i sware i dun care anymore after much thinking. If i see a girl like that again, im going after her like mad, even risking my own life. I sware id sell my soul to the devil to see her again and die for her. |
2007-12-04, 05:51 | Link #247 | |
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: In my fantasy dreamworld called Clannad
Age: 30
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My girlfriend broke up with me a couple months ago, but we stayed friends. (friends for a year) Of course, I never lost my feelings for her, and I have a good chance of getting back together with her. Something tells me she may have some feelings for me, based on how she acts, and based on that she askes me out for the semi-formal dance (course I said yes).
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2007-12-04, 10:04 | Link #248 | |
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: San Francisco
Age: 36
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2007-12-04, 13:26 | Link #249 | |
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Utah
Age: 35
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First, at your age, even if you really like the younger girls, I'd say stick with 18 and above....that should keep you out of too many really sticky situations. Seriously, age differences aren't such a big deal, but at least make sure the girls you go after are legal adults. Second, never ever EVER say stuff like that to a girl. That's creepy-talk, potential-stalker-talk, and will get you dropped faster than a.... I dunno, thing you drop really fast? And if you make the mistake of saying something like that and ger dumped, put it down as a learning experience and DO NOT pursue the girl further. At all. Don't even call her. Especially not more than once a day. And don't, like, buy her presents to win her back or anything. No matter how nice, attractive, whatever, the creepy guy does NOT get the girl. Ugh. |
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2007-12-04, 18:11 | Link #250 |
Love Yourself
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Northeast USA
Age: 38
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I disagree that there's no matter about age differences in a relationship. It's possible that a relationship could work around it - anything's possible. But simply put, how would you relate to each other? In the given example of a 20 year old and a 14 year old, how on Earth would you relate to each other? A 20 year old is thinking about the future; maybe finishing or thinking about university, thinking about jobs, and so on. A 14 year old is what - in high school? The concerns are completely different.
You can still love each other, but I don't think it'd be nearly the same as someone who is more at your level. If I saw the hottest girl ever and she turned out to be 14, you can bet I'd keep that to myself, nor would I pursue it. It's not because she's underage, but because she's 14 - she isn't fully developed as a person, and my apologies for probably sounding like an elitest ass for saying this, but it's very unlikely that she can match me in intellect or activity. It's just natural. I also don't believe that relations should be based on physical attraction alone, although the value of physical attraction should not be discounted. Physical attraction draws you into a relationship, but personal compatibility is what keeps it going, and keeps it enjoyable. A 14 year old may be capable of the former, but the chances are so slim that someone of that age could match someone 20+ years old that it's not even worth bothering with.
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2007-12-04, 18:18 | Link #251 | |
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2007-12-04, 20:58 | Link #252 | |
日本語を食べません!
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Location: San Francisco
Age: 41
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And since <insert genderless pronoun>'s account is more than one year old, trolling seems less likely. |
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2007-12-05, 11:43 | Link #253 |
An Intellectual Idiot
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: The Internet, ranging from the World of Warcraft------Deviantart----and much more!..My mostly WoW
Age: 31
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Well, my aunt and uncle have been married for about 25 years, and my aunt is like 10 years older then my uncle...Altghouh I think he was like 25 when they got married......I would say that things change over the years....I think that when she's 18, he wont really like her like that anymore and will probably be married himself...but who knows....
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2007-12-05, 16:34 | Link #254 |
Clannad Preacher
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: In my fantasy dreamworld called Clannad
Age: 30
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Lol, funny [romance] story here.
I like my ex-gf. My ex-gf likes me. Shes asks me out to the semi-formal, so I say yes. A friend of ours is tagging along. Then, my ex-gf says another girl can come along, who happens to like me (but I don't like her). So now, I'm taking my ex to the semi as a date, and 2 girls as friends. And here I was hoping for a few dances alone with her
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2007-12-05, 21:15 | Link #255 |
We want chicken tonight
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Melbourne - Australia
Age: 33
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^I don't know what you complaining about man. Do you want to swap places or something? I guess spend time with the 'ex-girl' (you'll already do this) and for the girl who likes you but you don't like her let her down easy. This can be done by completely ignoring her feelings or just stay away from the situation.
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2007-12-06, 06:20 | Link #256 |
Clannad Preacher
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: In my fantasy dreamworld called Clannad
Age: 30
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I'm not complaining about anything. When the time comes, if she revals her feelings, I'll just say something along the lines of "Sorry, but my hearts already taken." Or "Sorry, but no. Theres somebody else for me."
I just wish that my ex didn't have to let everybody come along -.- Oh well, I'll live :P
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2007-12-08, 10:48 | Link #258 |
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I cant wait till im 20+ (currently 16 yrs old) ucz at that age, dating younger woman wouldnt be so akward (examples: a 27 yr old an 22 yr old. or a 22 yr old. and an 19 yr old. etc, etc.)
As a teenager its akward dating someone even a couple of years younger. Its like, they think theyr petofiles- hahaha
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2007-12-08, 14:14 | Link #260 | |
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