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Flinch · 2011-06-02, 23:49

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Originally Posted by Da_Box

i've always wanted an "onee-chan" if you know what i mean

and i certainly wouldn't say no to "...nii-san"

Please find me a guy who would disagree.

Last Sinner · 2011-06-03, 00:39

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Originally Posted by Flinch

Please find me a guy who would disagree.

Guy who disagrees, reporting in.

Flinch · 2011-06-03, 00:46

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Originally Posted by Last Sinner

Guy who disagrees, reporting in.

Grr...

In my warped logic, I hereby exclude you, therefore making my statements without faults.

Kotohono · 2011-06-03, 01:33

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Originally Posted by Da_Box

hhmm, this interests, and confuses me somewhat

what exactly do you mean by "first, second, third..." cousin?

as for dating, i'm not sure, i mean, very few of them even live in the same country i do, and practically none of them even look remotely similar to me

Well first cousins are your parent's sibling's children, right?, second cousins are a branch further out than that they are your grandparent's sibling's grand children, and thus third cousins are your great grandparent's sibling's great grand children, and so on. [I hope I am explain that correct.]

Magin · 2011-06-03, 02:36

Not quite, from what I personally understand... I think that second cousins are your first cousin's children, and then third cousins are their children (i.e., your first cousin's grandchildren)

Kotohono · 2011-06-03, 02:44

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Originally Posted by Magin

Not quite, from what I personally understand... I think that second cousins are your first cousin's children, and then third cousins are their children (i.e., your first cousin's grandchildren)

Hmmm I don't think that's right... I thought a generation gap caused them to be "X removed" per generation gap, so that your cousin's children are your "cousins once removed", or else meeting your third cousin would be near highly unlikely since that would mean your third cousin is cousin's great grandchild

. And nearly impossible for them to be older than you

.

synaesthetic · 2011-06-03, 03:03

The cousin chart.

Last Sinner · 2011-06-03, 04:32

Flocking your relative - good in theory, disastrous in execution.

GDB · 2011-06-03, 05:47

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Originally Posted by Magin

Not quite, from what I personally understand... I think that second cousins are your first cousin's children, and then third cousins are their children (i.e., your first cousin's grandchildren)

I posted a graph link on the previous page that showed how it works. It doesn't go down from you, it goes up and over. So for every level of cousin, go back one generation to find the common ancestor, starting with your parents.

So first cousin, the common ancestor is your grandparents. Second is your great-grandparents. Third is your great-great-grandparents.

Last Sinner · 2011-06-03, 05:51

Dinner conversation would be murderous in such a family....

Khu · 2011-06-03, 07:28

So to try to get this topic on some notion of relevance:

How long after a break up (assuming you're the one who initiated it), is it okay to enter a new relationship?

~~Tsuyoshi~~ · 2011-06-03, 07:30

Totally up to you man. If you feel ready for another relationship now, then by all means, go for it. Just be sure that you're not seeking a relationship to cushion a depression you may or may not have following a break-up and that you want one with a girl that caught your eye because that girl is genuinely worth going out with. If you feel you need time to take a break and be on your own for a while, be it a week, a year, whatever suits you, that's fine as well. In my case, I'd want some time alone to deal with whatever repercussion (some people might remember

) but I digress.

Khu · 2011-06-03, 07:31

I meant so it's not awkward for you and the other person who you broke up with, but sure. lol.

(also, just curious, not looking to get into another one atm ^^; )

~~Tsuyoshi~~ · 2011-06-03, 07:33

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Originally Posted by Khu

I meant so it's not awkward for you and the other person who you broke up with, but sure. lol.

(also, just curious, not looking to get into another one atm ^^; )

Wait, do you mean you and the same girl? If not, then it really shouldn't be her problem if you're going out with someone else. If yes, you should talk it out with her cuz that can be a little complicated.

(figured as much

)

zebra · 2011-06-03, 09:40

This first cousin once removed sounds so strange to foreign ears

What do you remove? XD
Discussions like that are always fun ... "You're my what again?"
I needed years to figure out what the children of my cousins where to me ... putting aside I feel a bit like their big sister. .... even so they are already taller than me DD:

@khu, there is no formula. If you're still close to your ex like being in the same school, friend circle or workplace some thought is called for. However, I believe that every individual has to set the time themelves.
If it feels right again, it might be right again!

The gut feeling is something one should listen to. Specially, if you aren't a douche.

Malkuth · 2011-06-03, 09:43

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Originally Posted by Flinch

Please find me a guy who would disagree.

Here is another one, since I always found senpai sexier... Sakura@F/SN et al

Endless Soul · 2011-06-03, 09:45

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Originally Posted by Khu

How long after a break up (assuming you're the one who initiated it), is it okay to enter a new relationship?

Depends on you. I've known people who were already in a new relationship before breaking up with their current.

Flinch · 2011-06-03, 10:23

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Originally Posted by Malkuth

Here is another one, since I always found senpai sexier... Sakura@F/SN et al

I will let it slide, only because of Kirimiya Mizuki from Yume Miru Kusuri (Sakura from F/SN was poorly written, and had large breasts to make up for it).

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Originally Posted by Endless Soul

Depends on you. I've known people who were already in a new relationship before breaking up with their current.

Well, that's just uncouth.

~~Tsuyoshi~~ · 2011-06-03, 10:26

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Originally Posted by Endless Soul

Depends on you. I've known people who were already in a new relationship before breaking up with their current.

That's cheating D=

kitten320 · 2011-06-03, 11:07

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Originally Posted by Khu

So to try to get this topic on some notion of relevance:

How long after a break up (assuming you're the one who initiated it), is it okay to enter a new relationship?

I don't think it matters... depends purely on what you feel comfortable with. If there is someone you really like and they respond the same way, why delay?

Besides since you are the one who initiated the break up, and the reason is because you found someone better, you could start new relation almost instantly. The only problem here would be how your ex felt about the break up. You wouldn't want her to start raging at your new second half and screaming that it was her/his fault that you two broke up. There might be a trouble because of that so a small break could be a good option before starting anything new.

Though if you delay too much, your other half might find someone else

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Khu そんなやさしくしないで。。。 Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: NSW, Australia Age: 29	So to try to get this topic on some notion of relevance: How long after a break up (assuming you're the one who initiated it), is it okay to enter a new relationship?

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~~Tsuyoshi~~ Disabled By Request Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: The Great Justice	Totally up to you man. If you feel ready for another relationship now, then by all means, go for it. Just be sure that you're not seeking a relationship to cushion a depression you may or may not have following a break-up and that you want one with a girl that caught your eye because that girl is genuinely worth going out with. If you feel you need time to take a break and be on your own for a while, be it a week, a year, whatever suits you, that's fine as well. In my case, I'd want some time alone to deal with whatever repercussion (some people might remember ) but I digress.

2011-06-03, 07:31	Link #8913
Khu そんなやさしくしないで。。。 Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: NSW, Australia Age: 29	I meant so it's not awkward for you and the other person who you broke up with, but sure. lol. (also, just curious, not looking to get into another one atm ^^; )

2011-06-03, 09:40	Link #8915
zebra ❙❙❙❙❙❙❙❥ Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: in the wild	This first cousin once removed sounds so strange to foreign ears What do you remove? XD Discussions like that are always fun ... "You're my what again?" I needed years to figure out what the children of my cousins where to me ... putting aside I feel a bit like their big sister. .... even so they are already taller than me DD: @khu, there is no formula. If you're still close to your ex like being in the same school, friend circle or workplace some thought is called for. However, I believe that every individual has to set the time themelves. If it feels right again, it might be right again! The gut feeling is something one should listen to. Specially, if you aren't a douche.