2009-11-03, 14:36 | Link #2101 | |
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Join Date: Oct 2006
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The only time I've confessed to a girl, she had enough trouble coming up with a response that I simply changed the subject after a bit just to save us the awkwardness. I then let her organize her thoughts - basically that she didn't feel she knew me that well yet - via e-mail. Seemed to do the trick because she actually seemed more comfortable around me last time we met than prior to the confession, although that may have just been because there were less people she didn't know around than where I'd met her previously.
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2009-11-03, 15:25 | Link #2102 | ||
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She doesn't work all the time, does she? You could organize a date in which she could have fun and relieve from her stress. A picnic, or if you have a bit more money, an afternoon in a place like an amusement park or something like that |
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2009-11-03, 23:23 | Link #2105 | ||
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Join Date: Nov 2006
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Did that last night too, helped her make adjustments to her English in her essay. Unfortunately, since she's studying a different major from me, and that the bulk of her problems is that her assignments is getting in the way of her studying French, there's precious little I can do since I don't know French or Vietnamese. |
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2009-11-03, 23:37 | Link #2106 | |
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2009-11-03, 23:45 | Link #2107 | |
I don't give a damn, dude
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: In Despair
Age: 37
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But, eh. Not like you needed to know that much. |
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2009-11-04, 22:32 | Link #2108 |
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Both right now. I have a particular girl in mind (one of my close friends) and in general I just can't stop thinking about them. It really is an obsession right now and literally 95% of my thoughts are directed towards girls. Even when I'm focusing on my school studies, I still have these thoughts all the time.
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2009-11-05, 09:40 | Link #2109 | |
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Join Date: Feb 2008
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If you want to just spend a one night stand with a girl, then... why not going to the red light district? Joking aside, on the opposite, if you seek a relationship with a girl (short or long lasting), try to think with your head first, and not only with your pants XD I know it's easy to say, but don't let your common sense being too much blurred by your hormonal needs. |
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2009-11-05, 10:49 | Link #2110 |
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Like Narona said, think with your head. It isn't a problem to always have girls on the mind, but when you actually want to take the time to develop a relationship, make sure your head is clear and you know what you're getting into.
Also, don't let your needs mess up your priorities. Girls may be a great part of life (), but they aren't all there is to life.
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2009-11-05, 12:44 | Link #2111 | |
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If you're more wanting to do the former, my advice would be to get engrossed in something which you don't associate girls with. The only thing I can think of would be sport, but try something other than studying. Studying will hardly put to rest all the testosterone you're feeling right now. |
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2009-11-05, 20:26 | Link #2112 |
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Normandy SR-2
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I have a question! Several, actually.
So once me and a guy friend (NOT boyfriend) of mine went out together (just the two of us) to play soccer, basketball and buy ice cream. This guy's a year yonger than me; I met him i martial arts class, and he confessed to me a while later. But we agreed that we wouldn't be 'girlfriend and boyfriend' because, well, we felt that would be akward. We were only like, 14 and 13. Would that little outing that I mentioned above be pretty much a date? And is there anything 'bad' about going out with a guy younger than you? I haven't seen this person for a year... We're still e-mailing, though. Is this a good sign? Do you think you can see any development in our relationship (just friends, really) in the future? Or is it just, well, just something teeagers always have?
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2009-11-05, 21:07 | Link #2113 |
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It depends on how you define a date, to be honest. For me, it isn't a date unless I'm asked out by the guy or I ask the guy out myself; otherwise, I just assume I'm having a nice day with a guy friend. Incidentally, I don't see a problem with him being younger than you, since it isn't a major age difference and you both seem to be good friends.
Keeping in contact with someone is always a good thing regardless of what the future is. ^^ As for development, well, that's entirely up to you. You certainly have the option of dating him at this point, since you know he already likes you and I'm assuming that hasn't changed recently. As for what you mean by 'something teenagers always have', I don't follow, sorry.
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2009-11-05, 21:11 | Link #2114 | |
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and it may've been a date or may've just been hanging out; depends on how you both define it
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2009-11-05, 21:47 | Link #2115 |
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Yeah, I told a few friends about it and they were all like, 'oooh!' lol. So I was assuming most people saw it as a date... I didn't really feel that way, though.
And another thing is that he moved away from my hometown, which I'm going to visit every holiday because I'm in a boarding school, so we haven't met for a while. I'm not sure if we would be able to in the near future. I really do like him, but if we can't even see each other...
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2009-11-07, 04:22 | Link #2119 | |
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Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Vancouver, Canada
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Really, I think you're stressing out about things that don't actually matter that much. Whether or not it was a date is really just a matter of semantics and plenty of girls have younger boyfriends, it's just less common than the opposite because girls mature slightly faster. The distance factor is what you really need to be thinking about.
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