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I don't give a damn, dude
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: In Despair
Age: 37
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For such a simple, mercenary reason? 10 bucks that should you decide to follow your gut feelings, this wouldn't be much of a counter-reason.
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This is one of the things you have to stand firm on, particularly since not only does it affect you greatly, it's true that you didn't even ask for this. It's not like you ever tried to hit on the younger, so by right the older cannot reasonably pin the blame on you for the younger crushing on you. It's up to you to tell the older girl that, so don't be a chickenshit (like the last time) and get it over with. Besides, I find it likely you're just assuming what her behaviour would be. Is it impossible that her reaction would be a lot more reasonable than you think? |
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2010-03-30, 01:04 | Link #4002 | |
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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I have got to stop falling for international ladies... |
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2010-03-30, 01:07 | Link #4003 | |
I don't give a damn, dude
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: In Despair
Age: 37
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2010-03-30, 01:10 | Link #4004 |
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Northern VA
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man you're dating the wrong people then ROFL
a date for me and my gf could be dinner and a movie, or we're just as happy gathering up the kids, and taking them all to a playground and snuggle while they run around like fools
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2010-03-30, 01:16 | Link #4006 | |
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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It might mean he's poor and is really grateful, in my case. |
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2010-03-30, 01:36 | Link #4007 | |
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2010-03-30, 08:06 | Link #4008 | |
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: NJ - USA
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The key is where the initiative is coming from - if you're taking the reins and making the move, he might be just letting you wear the pants. If he's dropping suggestions and inviting you out only to leave the bill, then something might be up. |
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2010-03-30, 08:29 | Link #4009 |
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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Okay so I'm losing sleep over this, which is the first problem. The second problem is that I have no driver's license or permit which would interfere with the whole "going out" thing. Third, based on some new regulations added, it has now become 500x harder for me to get even a basic permit and I won't go into the details on that but chances are I won't be able to obtain one until I'm 25 or so at this rate.
This means that my only real methods of transportation for anything, not just this, would be foot and mooching rides off of others. This makes me one of two people in the grade who cannot drive, unrelated to being one of two people who have not been in a relationship (to my knowledge on both of those). I mean, I dunno maybe "Wanna take a ride on my shoes?" is attractive to some girls... Even if I had a legal means of driving I still wouldn't have a car. Couple this with me not playing any sports, being absurdly underweight (I'm not anorexic, but I sure look it...), and being damn ugly (not gonna even try to kid myself on this one), and I'm not exactly what you'd call "boyfriend material," even by the slightest stretch of imagination. So it's a big problem I can't stop thinking about this girl. =_= |
2010-03-30, 09:10 | Link #4010 | ||
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Athens (GMT+2)
Age: 35
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Moving on to the looks...people may like how I look, but they fall in love with me for who I am. (goes w/o saying that the same applies to everyone) To me, money is your only problem. Girlfriends need maintenance and NV's post even if they pay for you, it wouldn't feel right. You can still talk to her though, right? Last edited by Kafriel; 2010-03-30 at 09:32. |
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2010-03-30, 09:39 | Link #4011 | |
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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tl;dr; I'm a pussy. |
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2010-03-30, 09:45 | Link #4013 |
Kissing...
Join Date: Dec 2005
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Well, how about confirming how much the things that would entertain her will put a strain on your wallet and time? Maybe that knowledge might help you decide whether to move forward or give you the motivation to hold yourself back.
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2010-03-30, 09:57 | Link #4014 | |
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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We're on spring break now so I won't be seeing her until like a week. No phone number or anything like that. My wallet budget is under $20, so I'm pretty sure almost anything would strain it. But that's a good idea I hadn't really thought about. |
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2010-03-30, 09:59 | Link #4015 | |||
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Location: Athens (GMT+2)
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2010-03-30, 10:04 | Link #4016 | |
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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She hasn't shown any sign against me, though, which is why I'm guhhh-ing and stuff. (I'm American, she's an exchange student) |
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2010-03-30, 10:12 | Link #4017 | |
NYAAAAHAAANNNNN~
Join Date: Nov 2007
Age: 35
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Since I am not a girl with an imouto myself, I can't understand why she is so protective of that younger girl. C'mon, she is turning 18 this year, give her a break. And give me a break too, it is not like I am going to one-night stand her little sis upon her birthday. Assuming her behaviour is reasonable, it would still result in me getting threatened or injured one way or another. To quote her, I am "fun to punch". P.S : That little girl asked me to go to her house on Friday night to help her study. I am sure she knows of my shitty grades back in junior college, so this is rather suspicious. Should I go? Go for something that drags time. Like an ice cream parlor to sit down and talk. $20 can last you for a day if you know what to do with it : I used to spend $3 for 5 hours in a game arcade.
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2010-03-30, 10:37 | Link #4018 | ||
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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I think I need to figure out what people DO in their spare time... |
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2010-03-30, 11:01 | Link #4019 | |
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What if she doesn't know? Tell her beforehand and see what her opinion will be. If you don't want to go, don't go. It's your call. You don't seem to like her despite what you said about her being irresistable, so why waste your time even if your grades were good? |
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2010-03-30, 11:10 | Link #4020 | |||
I don't give a damn, dude
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: In Despair
Age: 37
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I'll never understand what people see in RL tsunderes, myself. Can't stand them. Quote:
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