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Either way, her reason is weak and vague since it's a cheap ticket out of a relationship, if it were me I'd go on a date, should she ask, but I would be extremely cautious of her if she wanted us to get back together. Quote:
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Call it naivety, but I don't trust anything my parents say. If you want technicalities, my parents are split, and my mum's dating someone, so he's an almost step-dad. I rarely see my dad, and both mum and dad play the "He said, she said" debacle. My dad is far too tainted to be reliable (He'd be like, "go for it, son"), and my mum will go out of her way to make sure I have very little fun anyway. Like I said, she only kept her around to prove a point to me, and when we split up, she took it upon herself to pull the "I told you so". Quote:
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2010-03-18, 10:49 | Link #3886 | |
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Personally, if it were me I wouldn't even give her the time of day, but then again my view is pretty similar to Chey's, heh. If I broke up with somebody once before, I'm not going to bother trying to date them again even if they want me back. It doesn't bode very well for a relationship when the two involved keep breaking up and getting back together.
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2010-03-18, 11:24 | Link #3887 | ||
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In this case, it all comes down to how sincere the other person is and if you believe what she says. It doesn't hurt to give the other person the benefit of the doubt, but be careful with with what you decide about second chances because if you believe the same thing is going to happen again, move on.
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Just saying, don't use your past failure as a reason to not try the same thing again. Oh and if you ever feel like you're just being the doormat for a rebound or maybe just in the friend zone, bail...or tell the woman straight up.
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I'm not saying you do. I just find the logic of getting back together faulty. Even if things go south and you break up again, she's going to have it somewhere in the back of her mind that she can always come back to you if things don't work out because you accepted her once before.
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2010-03-18, 15:16 | Link #3893 | |
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Of course, that sounds better theoretically than in reality .
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2010-03-18, 15:20 | Link #3894 | |
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Getting back together over and over again, probably a no-no. A second chance? Probably. Just take it easy, remember why you broke up, and get to know her all over again. People can make a second chance work, if they both want it, so you have to decide whether you want it or not. |
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2010-03-18, 18:13 | Link #3897 | |
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I have a friend who has been with her bf for three years now, but a few years before getting together again, they had broken up, but it was because he was going to study abroad at the time. When he got back they got back together so in this case, they had never broken up in bad terms or anything like it. The only way to find out whether you two will work out or not is by trying, I guess.
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2010-03-18, 19:46 | Link #3898 | ||
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I'm keeping it brief. i've been given a spare motorola and i'm having trouble using it though. normal posting will resume tomorrow.
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2010-03-18, 23:33 | Link #3900 |
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I talked to her. I made a mistake in the "confusion" bit. Confusion was the reaction she had when she realised that she liked me not the reason why she decided to want to go out with me..that might clear up some stuff
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