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Old 2009-03-30, 18:26   Link #1061
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No, no, notice that I said "at the end of parties?" When they are tired and calmed down already (and of course we'd had some fun before that), most of them don't bother let their hand be held (and yet they let their fantasy goes wild, like "this guy is unconsciously attracted to me" or things of the like ) Believe me, it's a much more safer and stable approach.

And as the first impression is important, if you too smoothly kiss a girl the first time you meet her, and she's the doubtful type, it will cause lots, lots of trouble later. If you know that 70% of women in relationship spy on their partner
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Old 2009-03-30, 19:43   Link #1062
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- shave
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- do wear jeans, sweaters, button up shirts, stylish haircuts
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Old 2009-03-30, 23:03   Link #1063
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I've gone on some dates before back when I was residing in New York. A very important rule for me is "no kisses on the first date". But I believe alot of other girls have the same rule. Actually being part Asian, I absolutely don't do kissing at all on dates.
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Old 2009-03-30, 23:13   Link #1064
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Actually being part Asian, I absolutely don't do kissing at all on dates.


Why would being part Asian keep you from kissing someone on a date? Also, both boys and girls are going to have a problem with a person who never kisses them.
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Old 2009-03-30, 23:22   Link #1065
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Why would being part Asian keep you from kissing someone on a date? Also, both boys and girls are going to have a problem with a person who never kisses them.
Well, principals come into play. And it's a big no-no for my parents. And yes from previous posts it's how you were raised. In my opinion, not kissing each other isn't really a big problem. Hugs are already good enough for dates. Hugs and kisses are both signs of affection kissing being more extreme.
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Old 2009-03-30, 23:38   Link #1066
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Aren't Asian people generally conservative about touching other people in most situations anyway? My mom who is Chinese occasionally talks about how it seems strange to her that Westerners are so open to touching and kissing (pats, hugs, stuff like that).
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Old 2009-03-31, 00:18   Link #1067
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Aren't Asian people generally conservative about touching other people in most situations anyway? My mom who is Chinese occasionally talks about how it seems strange to her that Westerners are so open to touching and kissing (pats, hugs, stuff like that).
*High five on that one*
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Old 2009-03-31, 00:23   Link #1068
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*High five on that one*
My thanks.
though I was really just explaining something.
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Old 2009-03-31, 00:50   Link #1069
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In the end, it comes down to how much feeling those action convey. But should one's opinion, or one's partner's opinion matter more in this? I mean, an Asian guy may not refrain from kissing his Europe girlfriend, because she doesn't care much of it. On the other hand, an Europe guy may not be so aggressive toward his Asian girlfriend.

Well, the rarer you do it, the more effective it will bring when you put it into action. So, well, I guess in Asian case it may be considered an investment?
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Old 2009-03-31, 11:23   Link #1070
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Aren't Asian people generally conservative about touching other people in most situations anyway? My mom who is Chinese occasionally talks about how it seems strange to her that Westerners are so open to touching and kissing (pats, hugs, stuff like that).
You are right......people here in the States don't really care and its kind of the most simplest thing in the world to such an extent that that people call an unexperianced person boring and kidish....They say,
"What!? You have never done that before? how shameful."
Are we untouchables if we don't want to do it?

I personally don't like it......though i wouldn't call meeting a guy who is just a simple friend like other gals a Date.

People who have asked me before end up being my brothers forcefully

Its a good way of getting rid of them..(well they call me a bully for converting "flirts into brothers")
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Old 2009-03-31, 17:25   Link #1071
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to such an extent that that people call an unexperianced person boring and kidish....They say,
"What!? You have never done that before? how shameful."
Don't worry, not only the U.S.A are like that XD... When you get older, it can become even worse, but college is not as worse as middle and highschool, because you tend to not spend all the days with the same 25-30 students. ( and not all the people are like that )

And not only some asians are sometimes different... I don't like when people touch me (so if they dare touch me, they expose themselves to my wrath ). As for kissing, i want to wait for somebody that I will really love So the boys tricks to steal a kiss don't work on me

Anyways, whatever your choices and even if sometimes you might feel like criticizing (at least for me, sometimes i have that feeling, some people here know about what I am talking about XD), keep in mind that each person should live the life he/she wants, the way she/he wants. So, don't do the same mistake as some people who can be mean or use sarcasm, because the other people, even if they live differently than you, have also the right to make their own choices in life.
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Old 2009-04-03, 04:15   Link #1072
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Aren't Asian people generally conservative about touching other people in most situations anyway? My mom who is Chinese occasionally talks about how it seems strange to her that Westerners are so open to touching and kissing (pats, hugs, stuff like that).
Yes. I have Chinese girlfriend who I recently hooked up with who is from Macau. She tells me all about it. Not to mention I've had quite a few Asian friends throughout the years that are not from the USA. Luckily for me my girlfriend pretty much rebels against all of those rules. We're into more PDA than most couples.
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Old 2009-04-04, 11:34   Link #1073
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Don't worry, not only the U.S.A are like that XD... When you get older, it can become even worse, but college is not as worse as middle and highschool, because you tend to not spend all the days with the same 25-30 students. ( and not all the people are like that )

And not only some asians are sometimes different... I don't like when people touch me (so if they dare touch me, they expose themselves to my wrath ). As for kissing, i want to wait for somebody that I will really love So the boys tricks to steal a kiss don't work on me

Anyways, whatever your choices and even if sometimes you might feel like criticizing (at least for me, sometimes i have that feeling, some people here know about what I am talking about XD), keep in mind that each person should live the life he/she wants, the way she/he wants. So, don't do the same mistake as some people who can be mean or use sarcasm, because the other people, even if they live differently than you, have also the right to make their own choices in life.
Ya thats true.....people have their own choice to live their way...I don't get bothered by such people nor do i ridicule them....its only bothering when it comes to me and what i do......
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Old 2009-04-04, 15:08   Link #1074
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Ya thats true.....people have their own choice to live their way...I don't get bothered by such people nor do i ridicule them....its only bothering when it comes to me and what i do......
I get bothered (and eventually get angry ) when they're criticizing me without any good reason or try to control my life.
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Old 2009-04-04, 18:29   Link #1075
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Pftt i like my best friend and she treats me better then anyone else but i wouldnt dare ask, shes shit popular and im geeky skate kid xD
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Old 2009-04-04, 20:45   Link #1076
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Yes. I have Chinese girlfriend who I recently hooked up with who is from Macau. She tells me all about it. Not to mention I've had quite a few Asian friends throughout the years that are not from the USA. Luckily for me my girlfriend pretty much rebels against all of those rules. We're into more PDA than most couples.
Isn't this the reason to get a gf who had a strict upbrining... rebellion is soooo damn hawt. Kind of like the I'm punishing daddy mentality, man I've heard that many a times while we're doing something kinky.
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Old 2009-04-04, 20:47   Link #1077
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@kyouskey haha thats like me exactly. im nerdy and hes so popular i wouldnt feel right asking him out
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Old 2009-04-05, 13:24   Link #1078
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Girls are kind of cool, especially when you are with them.

Take every opportunity to smell her neck. Trust me on this one.
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Old 2009-04-08, 10:50   Link #1079
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I need help guys!! :]


Okay so I went out with this boy last year for 3 months, but I stopped being with him because he was super paranoid. Currently he has a girlfriend who happens to be one of my friends, but Sunday night he told me that he didn't love her and how he needed a new girlfriend. He said he wasn't sure if he wanted me back yet. But later that night my friend (M) got drunk and tried to kiss him, he told M to back off because his lips were only to be touched by me.. Do you think he is still into me.. because I am so confused. I have always liked him but I cant ask him out if he is with my friend. Although we have done some stuff together which counts as cheating anyway and I really dont want her to know.. AGH!
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Old 2009-04-08, 12:51   Link #1080
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It seems he still holds a special place in his heart for you considering that he is saving a kiss for you.

What exactly did he do that made you think he was super paranoid?
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