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Maybe not, the only reason I asked was because I don't really find it worthwhile to compare with people young enough to still be in the 5th grade. Relationships among people that age douctfully last very long. As was said to Halad by a number of people, it's best to focus on just being who you are rather than worrying about how others are doing in that area. Worry too much and you might end up with the wrong guy because you've been in a bit of a hurry, if you know what I mean.
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2011-05-18, 11:51 | Link #8803 |
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That depends how drunk he is. If he is really drunk, like to the point where he can't really muster the brain power to lie - yes, I would believe it. If he is still quite sober - no, or maybe at most.
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2011-05-18, 21:54 | Link #8806 |
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Thanks for the great advice everyone! You actually did get me feeling a little better about myself in general I sometimes do wonder if I'd be attractive to guys, as all I see in my school here are a lot of really thin and pretty girls that I feel like I'd totally be shadowed by... I also have issues with wearing dresses, or dressing up in general which doesn't help my confidence at all either >.< and sheesh, maybe I'm too naive... It's pretty weird that a kid my age still hasn't drunk alcohol or done drugs or made out with anyone yet, even if I'm in a pretty enclosed environment...
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2011-05-18, 22:13 | Link #8808 |
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Wow, really? You think so? Aw, thanks... *hides for a moment*
Yeah, I know they're not good things... but most of the people in my school seem to be doing all sorts of... strange stuff already. I guess I'm just growing up very clean, I know that pretty much everyone drinks and smells like weed all the time and stuff I'm just a bit nervous about what things would be like when I'm suddenly thrust into uni, I suppose...
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2011-05-18, 23:10 | Link #8811 | |
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I thought Korean girls are usually into BL, but I didn't know that when two cute Korean girls interact, they interact amidst lilies and - *gets set upon by a horde of zerglings*.
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Neither of those statements make sense anyway.
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2011-05-19, 03:13 | Link #8815 |
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That's another way of looking at it, and probably a more modern view as well. Consumer units who indeed are driven by their lust for pleasure and so on. The reason I say it's considered "more socially acceptable" (when it really isn't) is because even since ancient times, people considered things like sex and alcohol part of what makes you an adult. A rather short-sighted view even now, and what defines an adult aren't those things at all. So I guess it's either/or
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2011-05-19, 04:35 | Link #8817 |
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That's fine The whole point is to do what you feel is right for you, which basically means what is normal for you. Some people end up doing these things not because they want to, but because they try too hard to fit in with the rest of the group or are pushed hard by said group.
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2011-05-19, 06:29 | Link #8818 | |
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2011-05-19, 06:38 | Link #8819 | |
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I'd be very surprised if the majority of students in your school are into that stuff. Most people certainly don't get significantly into drugs (if they did, they'd be legal.) and alcohol wise even in Ireland which is the most alcohol drinking in the world there's a sizeable number of people who don't drink at all, or only moderately. Sex is similiar, depending on the country the average age to lose virginity is usually somewhere around 17 or so. So almost half of students don't lose their virginity until after high school (and for some of us we're still virgins after college ). Saw you in the photo thread, you're no Jessica Alba (who is?) but I'd go out with you, you're fine. You'd have to be an obese ogre before you'd start having trouble. Heck even then there are some men who are into... big women. Girls worry a lot more about their appearance then they really need to. And if it's really a problem you'll find loads of guys desperate for female attention in your local game, sci-fi or anime clubs. Film clubs too (basically every club I was ever a part of...). So just dress however you like and go out there with confidence. The best beauty enhancer in a world is an air of confidence and happiness. Look at all those weird before and after photos on makeover shows, ever noticed that in the before they're scowling (or indifferent) and in the after they're bright smiling and confident? The facial expression and posture does as much (or more) to improve the woman's appearance as the makeup and/or clothes and/or surgery. That said, don't go out there wearing a frumpy track suit. But you don't need to go out wearing haute-couture either. I've always found sundresses real nice on the eyes... Last edited by DonQuigleone; 2011-05-19 at 06:50. |
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