2004-10-30, 16:38 | Link #1 |
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Life changing advice needed
I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.
I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from uni, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her. Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my g/f. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch. Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Halfords and try to repair it myself? |
2004-10-30, 17:00 | Link #3 |
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If she avoids you, and she is trying to HIDE something, the relationship is basically dying...even if it is not, the trust is not the same, without trust a relationship is nothing. Best thing (and the HARDEST thing) would be to break it off.
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2004-10-30, 17:04 | Link #4 | |
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Of course, if you don't know squat, then I suggest taking it to a body repair shop. |
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2004-10-30, 17:04 | Link #5 | |
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Who cares? If you don't trust her and don't dare to ask from her face-to-face, dumb her. Or more easily: let it die. Move to the next one and live on -otherwise it will be just a pain in the ass.
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2004-10-30, 17:06 | Link #7 | |
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PS You were asking about the car problem right? |
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2004-10-30, 17:07 | Link #8 | |
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Why does everyone think Scrumhalf was talking about his GF when all he wants to know is:
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2004-10-30, 17:22 | Link #13 | |
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Yeah, I don't think he wants advice on his girlfriend, he never asked for it. The whole GF thing was just a diversion ^_^ and does he even want advice on the car question? ...Good stuff! |
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2004-10-30, 17:25 | Link #14 | |
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