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Thanks for the replies. Some more appreciated than others.
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2011-01-25, 10:11 | Link #7883 | ||
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2011-01-25, 12:36 | Link #7884 | ||
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2011-01-25, 13:44 | Link #7885 | |
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Muhahahahaha...I like this idiffer guy, not many members have the guts (or should I say, stupidiy?) to say ''such'' things so blunt As for the sex/love discussion: In my opinion there should be a balance between sex and ''social stuff''. Yes, understanding each other is very important, heck I should say the most important in a relationship. Sex IS NOT the most important thing in a relationship, but it is needed. Every brain has the prehistoric instinct to make love and have children. But for humans there are some exceptions, like asexuals or anorexia people (homosexuals are a different story, explaining them would be offtopic IMO). How could one organism ignore the most important instinct, which it to EAT? Then there is kissing, foreplay and other stuff...I'd call that ''Soft sex'' ...*is shot* I seriously wouldn't recommend long distance relationships. I have seen too many people suffering from it. Excuse me for my bad English ...Then again, I'm just 16 and have never been in a relationship. The adults may know better.
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2011-01-25, 14:15 | Link #7887 |
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I... just... GAH! I hate this boy, dammit!
I don't usually hate people my friends date. In general, I like to get along with them. If I can't, I like to keep our interaction down to a minimum so that there isn't any trouble caused between them and my friends. But when you have the nerve to tell my best friend that she should interact with me less and not joke around with me as much because you're around... GAH! Goddammit. I've known her longer than you. You have no right to push me out of her life just because you're jealous, you sad, pathetic little boy. I seriously hope she dumps you soon. I'm waiting for it. .... That was more rant-ish than I intended it to be...
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2011-01-25, 14:16 | Link #7888 |
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Totally agree with you on the age thing. I do believe in ''no sex before marriage''. So when I talk about a relationship, I talk about being with someone who you really want to spend your life with. Patience is the key to most successful relationships
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2011-01-25, 14:37 | Link #7889 | ||
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2011-01-25, 14:42 | Link #7890 | |
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2011-01-25, 15:37 | Link #7892 |
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@Miko Miko,
Seriously. Go to school. Just fucking do it. If I can get into college and start my major in electrical engineering, while unemployed, homeless and basically totally broke, you can absolutely do it living in your family's home and being supported (financially and otherwise) by them. Edit: And while you're at it, major in engineering!
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#2: Play hurt in front of him. Although I can tell it is very frustrating, maybe he can't see it, so going a bit over the top and bringing the drama to him might make him regret ever making a girl sad. #3: Tell your friend he's being an idiot. She'll handle him... Personally, I'm a fan of number three, because she can see the side of him that you see, and if that fails, at least you tried it her way and you can do whatever you want afterwards. |
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2011-01-25, 16:51 | Link #7895 | |
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How to deal with it is a bit tricky: ignoring him might work if your friend is fully aware of the problem as well and can work to tone him down so he'll drop the issue. But since I'm not very good at dealing with such issues don't take my word for it. All I can really add is that I understand how a guy might feel threatened by such a close relationship. With another girl is a bit unusual but since I can understand why it would be so with another dude I can kind of understand it working with a girl as well and that's why I say he needs to grow up. To him I would say: "So your gf has a really close friend and you feel like that's not fair: TOUGH, DEAL WITH IT! If you like the girl you just have to f***ing respect her opinions." but that would be from dude to dude. PS: now back to cramming for tomorrows exam. Last one, finally gonna get my life back.
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2011-01-25, 17:10 | Link #7896 |
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Ahh, now i have finally talked about the sex blah blah blah with my parents, they had no problem at all with it () and then there was a VERRRRRYYYYYY long conversation about safety, ect. Yay, finaly got it done. Thanks for the tips all, i love u guys and girls <3
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2011-01-25, 17:26 | Link #7897 | |
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2011-01-25, 17:43 | Link #7898 |
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This made me giggle if that's the case, he's sure ballsy/moody. But you never know, that could be the reason. ^_^
Otherwise I'd suggest approaching your friend about it unless you think she may get overly defensive about him. Otherwise, you might have to let it pan out (/something may boil over before hand...).
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2011-01-25, 19:14 | Link #7899 | |
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2011-01-25, 19:18 | Link #7900 | |
そんなやさしくしないで。。。
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Minecraft is basically my entire engineering perfect world. lol. (Floating glass houses ftw!) But yeah, just on that note: DO NOT COUNT THE DAYS. COUNTING THE DAYS MAKES IT SEEM SLOWER. DO NOT COUNT THE DAYS. |
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