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In a general sense, I do think the article holds a bit of truth to it.
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2009-10-06, 19:35 | Link #282 | |
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2009-10-06, 19:43 | Link #283 |
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Why do I think the article holds a bit of truth? Personal experience mostly. I live in a country where machismo dictates a lot of actions among men, a way of thinking that doesn't get too emotional for the simply heck of not thinking of it as manly.
I grew up in that environment and won't deny it's effects on my way of thinking. I do try to see things from other angles, though.
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2009-10-06, 19:46 | Link #284 | |
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I mean, why do we sometimes feel more comfortable and open around friends of the opposite gender instead of friends of the same gender? Shouldn't it be the other way around?
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2009-10-06, 19:54 | Link #285 | |
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At the same time, it could also be a factor among many.
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2009-10-06, 19:56 | Link #286 | |
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Furthermore, we are often more "active," harsh and "ruthless" when it come to advices for same sex friends, and there's a lot of reasons for this. If it's someone of the opposite sex, we somehow become a better listener. Personally, when I feel that talking to my gal friends make me feel at ease, the one who can be straightforward and show me where my life is wrong is not a woman, but always a man. |
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2009-10-06, 21:47 | Link #287 |
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No, absolutely not. If the guy doesn't want to jump the girls bones, the girl most definitely wants to jump his. And the later is more often, because all girls are closet whores deep down anyway.
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2009-10-07, 00:38 | Link #288 |
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I would modify and qualify the poll question:
Can a man and women who are not attracted to each other be just friends? - Yes Can a man and women who are attracted to each other act as friends? - Yes Can a man and women who are attracted to each other think of each other as just friends? - No |
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2009-10-07, 08:01 | Link #290 | |
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I also wanted to mention something on the whole opposite gender friend thing. Girls tend to have male friends because let's face it, women can be catty and nasty, the competition factor, and whatnot. Males can't be sensitive, vulnerable creatures with their male friends, so almost every guy I know has some female ones, they come to for advice, etc, because their guy friends would razz the hells out of them for being "weak" or whatever stupidity. I don't have many female friends, because quite honestly, my interests aren't theirs; I'm a gamer, a geek, and so on. I could care less about fashion, etc etc, so I don't hang out with other women much, save for my girlfriend and a few others (it's of note, though, that most of those others are wives or girlfriends of my male friends). My husband only has a handful of friends, all male, but his best friend in the world, as he puts it, is me. He comes to me whenever he needs to do the anti-macho thing I need to not post when sleep deprived, my ramblings end up not making sense even to me o.O
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2009-10-07, 08:15 | Link #291 | |
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(and the part about you being his best friend is totally awesome btw) |
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2009-10-08, 07:04 | Link #293 | |
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Anyway, as I said, you seem to have met a girl who like you for what you are (even if so far she doesn't want your relationship to be official), so I hope it will work out There there. There are some, but not all. Same for boys, no ? |
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2009-10-10, 15:33 | Link #297 |
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Don't know a thing in French, but I am guessing it's similar to spanish in how one must never refer to a young (unmarried) lady as Seņora and must always use Seņorita instead.
Of course, if a girl never marries, she could be refered as a Seņorita all her life.
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2009-10-10, 20:46 | Link #300 |
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Noting on the the gender female differences, it occurs in english too.
Ms vs Miss. Typically, the social notion of Ms is a woman who has been divorced or is middle aged. Single young peeps are typically 'Miss' Mrs (naturally, is a married woman) So applying Ms to me, does make me twitch too, lol. Eitherway methinks we should skip back to topic on end or let the thread lie
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