2011-12-14, 04:31 | Link #9847 |
I don't give a damn, dude
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: In Despair
Age: 37
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If you've found yourself in a physically intimate position with a girl, that is, sitting close together and/or hugging and/or sitting on your lap etc., that's the right time to try a kiss. Otherwise, don't bother.
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2011-12-14, 09:08 | Link #9848 |
Honyaku no Hime
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: In the eastern capital of the islands of the rising suns...
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And it depends on what we're on about here.
A sweet, simple semi chast 'good night' kiss? Or a full blown out snog on the sofa with tongues and all
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2011-12-14, 09:25 | Link #9849 | |
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Neck Nibbling of course. ------------- A kiss shouldn't be the goal of a first date. Only if it's plain out obviously both of you really want to kiss each other. Kissing easily becomes the norm after a few dates. First date is typically not the same as being a relationship. It's only the dates after that when your friend and his date can be considered in a relationship. Because there wouldn't be a second date if there's a problem. And once in that position, kissing isn't too big of a thing to think about, it'll come naturally. ------------------- Unless this is a speed-race game of who can take each others pants off first. Then I suggest getting advice from Simple Pickup. A trio devoted to making a fool out of themselves in front of girls. They have more balls than tub full of plastic balls in a children's playground. Spoiler for Irrelephant:
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2011-12-14, 12:07 | Link #9851 |
Knight Errant
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Dublin, Ireland
Age: 35
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I don't think there's any really good rule about when to kiss.
I guess it's better to err on the side of politeness though. But you really need to judge the mood. Also she may make it obvious she wants to be kissed. If her head seems to be in the right position, and if you (slowly) have your head approach yours, you should be able to judge it, I think. If she looks like she's pulling away, well that means it's a no go. |
2011-12-14, 16:42 | Link #9852 |
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It would depend on a good number of things imho. For instance, how long have you known the person? Something like that would give an idea of how intimate you are with the other. Normally, I wouldn't think of kissing a girl on the first date assuming I haven't known her very long. It would be rather soon for such a thing.
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2011-12-14, 17:21 | Link #9853 |
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Suburban DC
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I agree but in this case asking about it so soon, I think he's worried about looking like a loser.
It's the "OMG, If I don't make a move she'll think I'm some limp dicked wuss who's afraid to touch a woman" fear, at least from what I infer. |
2011-12-14, 18:02 | Link #9854 |
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Ok, why is he afraid of that? Is it just him or is the girl apparently the type who likes to move fast? If the latter, one needs to remember that not always is that the girl's true face. She may act pretty willing but in the end, she could actually be quite shy about the whole matter. But that's all I'm gonna say about the girl. If it's just his own fear, he should simply go with what happens on the date, relax and be himself, be his own man. I'm quite sure that'll impress her more than anything, regardless of whether or not they kiss. Also, kissing doesn't always mean there's romance. I believe you can have perfectly wonderful romance without kissing every so often. Both he and his date could have a beautiful time together.
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2011-12-15, 08:31 | Link #9856 |
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Join Date: Apr 2011
Location: The Middle Way
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Though I said I was fine with it, you probably wouldn't see anything from me, I'm all talk when it comes to this, once the real thing pops up I become shy.
I have this weird thing for unresolved sexual tension.
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2011-12-16, 01:17 | Link #9860 | |
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