2011-06-18, 20:55 | Link #9041 |
Honyaku no Hime
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: In the eastern capital of the islands of the rising suns...
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Cultural question Americans.
What exactly is a purpose of a bar, first and foremost? Because to me that signalls 'club' (there's a bar in a club), where going to dance without alcohol can be an objective, hence meeting some dreamy dude who knows how to moooove~~ *coughs* (Think of all those dance movies like Honey, or save the last dance, the bar is just an addition) Or going to get wasted and then drunken dance. (Uni students) Or going to drink a little, mingle and watch others dance while socialising. So many ways/opportunities and usually from there, one would catch a number and arrange to meet up in a cafe or something for a real 'get to know each other'. The other alternative is a pub, but the use/purpose of it resides in a culture similar to Japan and izakayas (just a little) with food, drink, homely feel, families visit on weekends, can play darts, pool or have karaoke or bingo nights. It's definitely a good place to socialise/mingle and get to know those around the community and yes once again alcohol can be involved if one wants but it's not the 'be all and end all' as I'm seeing so many replies here. Ugh, bar, I don't want drunkards!!! *rant rant* Kinda thing, lol. So it makes me wonder, what exactly is the function/scene of those in America, sounds awfully limited...
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2011-06-18, 21:07 | Link #9043 | |
Frandle & Nightbag
Join Date: Oct 2009
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We do have 'elite' bars here, usually part of high-class hotel as an amenity, but also sometimes part of a music venue. Well-established Blues and Jazz venues frequently have high-class bars. Either way, bars that like serve two purposes: for exhausted and well-off businessmen to use alcohol for relaxation without having to deal with the riff-raff, or for people who savor fine cocktails to enjoy the work of a skilled bartender.
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2011-06-18, 23:04 | Link #9044 |
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Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Virginia
Age: 46
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^ And then you have an honest to God bar! A place that's been well established for years, where one can go with family and/or friends watch the game on a big screen, take in the local gossip, eat really good BBQ, and have a blast with a local band or the Rockola in the corner.
Some places are "dives" and some are elitetist pig styes, but most are home to your typical blue collar folks who are just looking to unwind, have a good time, and maybe get lucky or make new friends!
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2011-06-18, 23:42 | Link #9045 | |
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I don't actually go to bars anymore because my retarded state thinks they're smart and banned smoking in bars. WTF California? The purpose of a bar is to drink, smoke and listen to bad bands play! Booze and tobacco go together like peanut butter and chocolate for fuck's sake!
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2011-06-19, 08:38 | Link #9048 | |
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That's another annoying issue, when I go out and especially when meeting new people, the main thing that I want to do is talk with them (not dance, not show off), and it is impossible in clubs, and most bars because either their crappy selection of music is too loud or some blocks are screaming something incomprehensible while watching some match |
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2011-06-19, 13:37 | Link #9051 | |
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: San Francisco
Age: 36
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2011-06-19, 14:29 | Link #9052 | |
blinded by blood
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I'm not going to argue against the issues second-hand smoke can cause children or those with health concerns when the smoke is heavy and in a poorly-ventilated area (i.e. stupid parents smoking inside around their kids). I don't know if I was doomed from the start, since my parents both smoked indoors and never avoided me when I was young... and I started smoking when I was in my teens. Dumbest thing I ever did, but no matter how many times I've tried to quit I can't seem to do it.
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2011-06-19, 14:33 | Link #9053 | |
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Age: 35
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2011-06-19, 17:28 | Link #9055 | |
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Clubs, especially dance ones are the worst, too loud, way too many show off's, horrible quality, slow service, stink of sweat, and are filled with immature and annoying kids. |
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2011-06-19, 20:44 | Link #9059 | ||
Knight Errant
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Dublin, Ireland
Age: 35
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I don't really care about the health effects. I just like the fact that the air is clear now. I used to not be able to see the roofs... Quote:
You also stink. Sorry to say it, but it's true. Smokers stink. It also costs how much per day? Also smokers absolutely hate me. I love to tell the young dudes standing on the corner all about how they're probably going to be impotent by the time they hit 40 . (Their response: "What's impotence?") I like my manly body odour. The really weird thing though is that I smell just like my dad. It was pretty weird when I first realised it. What next, am I going to start telling kids to get off the lawn? |
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2011-06-19, 20:55 | Link #9060 |
blinded by blood
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I know it smells, I know it costs a lot, I know it's not good for me... but my fiancee refuses to quit, so unless I dump her, I am not going to be able to quit unless she does. And she gets really mad if anyone pokes her about quitting smoking and then starts ranting about people being obsessed with weed but hating on tobacco.
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