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Chaos2Frozen · 2013-05-14, 02:14

Thats just trading one problem for another =_=

Soverence · 2013-05-14, 02:15

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Originally Posted by synaesthetic

I'm talking about the legal concept of marriage... sigh...

Apologies if I've been unclear, but the legal concept of marriage is unfairly discriminatory to the single person and the unmarriageable gay couple, and favors the heteronormative couple unit. Married couples receive tax breaks and various legal powers and rights that an unmarried couple or a gay couple in a state without legal gay marriage cannot receive.

The emotional concept of marriage? I quite like it. I think weddings themselves are amazing fun and I actually squee every time I think about or daydream about my own wedding.

The legal concept of marriage is different in every country though, speaking of legal matters is always a sticky area since laws are different in different places. I will agree though from what I know about marriage in various places that most countries do give unfair advantages to married heterosexual couples since it is the most commonly found unit.

On the topic of arranged marriage, most people seem to think that the normal for a arranged marriage is parents/family says you will marry this person and you have no say in the matter. The idea that you are just forced into a marriage against your will is known as a forced marriage. An arranged marriage is something that both parties agree to, they agree to allow their family to find/introduce them to potential spouse/wife.

SaintessHeart · 2013-05-14, 02:15

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Originally Posted by Chaos2Frozen

Thats just trading one problem for another =_=

Which could be? Please elaborate.

NoemiChan · 2013-05-14, 02:19

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It's funny how my engagement was semi-based on a half-serious arrangement between grandparents.

He's a lucky guy.....

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Apologies if I've been unclear, but the legal concept of marriage is unfairly discriminatory to the single person and the unmarriageable gay couple, and favors the heteronormative couple unit.

Because they're the majority for thousands of years and recognized and accepted by majority of the human race, political and religious alike.

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Married couples receive tax breaks and various legal powers and rights that an unmarried couple or a gay couple in a state without legal gay marriage cannot receive.

Blame the law and the people who approve of them. The only thing that could be done is vote for the right people (gay and lesbian politicians). As long as it's MAJORITY WINS it can't be help. It may take a millenneum before same sex marriage be recognized around the world and Saintess fetish be recognized after that and of India's human and animal marriages.

Dr. Casey · 2013-05-14, 02:19

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Originally Posted by Chaos2Frozen

Thats just trading one problem for another =_=

It's like the old saying goes, it's better to have had a hot chick and lost than to never have had a hot chick at all. A girl that forever looks 12 would never be attractive to begin with.

Seitsuki · 2013-05-14, 02:21

That would be.. terrifyingly subjective.

Triple_R · 2013-05-14, 02:23

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Originally Posted by Dr. Casey

It's like the old saying goes, it's better to have had a hot chick and lost than to never have had a hot chick at all.

lol Clever line. I'll have to try to remember that one.

Azuma Denton · 2013-05-14, 02:24

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Originally Posted by SaintessHeart

Except for far-sighted guys and those with good taste. I don't want saggy sacks of fat when we are both old.

In fact I would prefer someone who looks like a 12-year-old throughout her entire life.

Unless you have enough money to send her over to operation room to maintain her body...

Anyway back to the topic, arranged marriage is still exist in most part of the world either it is matchmaking one or forced one...

SaintessHeart · 2013-05-14, 02:24

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Originally Posted by Dr. Casey

It's like the old saying goes, it's better to have had a hot chick and lost than to never have had a hot chick at all. A girl that forever looks 12 would never be attractive to begin with.

Maybe not 12. 14-16 would be nice too. Cute, small and fits perfectly in your arms.

What is the use of something you can only look at but doesn't feel good in your arms? Although I advocate for fine balance between both, nothing is perfect; so I would settle for something that is cuddly.

Oh yeah, with regards to boobs, it doesn't matter. A flat chest is a status symbol.

LeoXiao · 2013-05-14, 02:26

They're okay as long as both parties are happy enough to put up with it. If they aren't they can get a divorce.

synaesthetic · 2013-05-14, 03:11

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Originally Posted by SaintessHeart

Oh yeah, with regards to boobs, it doesn't matter. A flat chest is a status symbol.

Big ones are a hindrance and a literal pain.

Eragon · 2013-05-14, 03:31

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Originally Posted by Dr. Casey

It's like the old saying goes, it's better to have had a hot chick and lost than to never have had a hot chick at all.

You sure that saying isn't the slogan for KFC(chicken being there instead of chick) ? XD

MeoTwister5 · 2013-05-14, 03:57

I'll just say that at some point an arranged marriage is probably the only way I'll ever get hitched!

Seitsuki · 2013-05-14, 04:03

In solitude, we are least alone.

SaintessHeart · 2013-05-14, 04:14

You don't have to be fear to be alone because you are just another member of society. As outcasted as you may see yourself to be, keep in mind that there are very popular people who chafe in the horde of people in attract and wished they could be like you, having time to yourself.

There are always opposites. The grass is always greener on the other side; the problem is that, are you projecting an image to your potential halves that you are trustworthy enough for them?

Seitsuki · 2013-05-14, 04:26

'Trustworthy'....

That wasn't aimed at me was it?

SaintessHeart · 2013-05-14, 04:29

Do you think you are trustworthy enough for the girls you would like to have by your side?

Chaos2Frozen · 2013-05-14, 04:42

...my parents told me I could have been a Burmese prince...

SaintessHeart · 2013-05-14, 04:44

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Originally Posted by Chaos2Frozen

...my parents told me I could have been a Burmese prince...

Why don't you start earning enough money to buy a bride from one of the tribe leaders there?

NoemiChan · 2013-05-14, 04:46

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...my parents told me I could have been a Burmese prince...

*burst laugh

That's a good one. Should have posted that in the A Laugh A Day Thread.

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