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Old 2011-05-20, 00:19   Link #8841
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That's my biggest issue. No drink is worth that asking price.
Unless the families on both sides have at least one brewery, making some of the best sake/soju in the world.
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Old 2011-05-20, 00:28   Link #8842
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Unless the families on both sides have at least one brewery, making some of the best sake/soju in the world.
The pressure to take on the family business and better it would be a high price.

And sake is way too light.
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Old 2011-05-20, 02:20   Link #8843
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well...I did it. And we're both feeling pretty crap now. :/
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Old 2011-05-20, 02:38   Link #8844
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If you'd done it any later, you'd be feeling worse. Granted, it's never easy, but in time, both of you will be able to move on and find something else to keep you busy. For now, just focus on why you had to break it off, else it'll all be in vain.
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Old 2011-05-20, 02:44   Link #8845
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well...I did it. And we're both feeling pretty crap now. :/
*Pats head*

It'll be all right. Just hold on until then.
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Old 2011-05-20, 04:53   Link #8846
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well...I did it. And we're both feeling pretty crap now. :/
It's part of life and an inevitability. You can never really know another person. They might let you in more than most others, but in the end, a person can never truly know another. The two of you became very different people. In the long run, this was the best choice for you. It will suck now, but it will get better. Just focus on what you need to do right now. If anything, you've learnt something about relationships, love and being with another person. It will benefit you in the long run.

And if you really need a pick-me-up, try The Avalanches - Since I Left You
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Old 2011-05-20, 09:14   Link #8847
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It's part of life and an inevitability. You can never really know another person. They might let you in more than most others, but in the end, a person can never truly know another.
this has newtype theory written all over it

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well...I did it. And we're both feeling pretty crap now. :/
hey man, if you dragged it any longer you'd feel worse, you did what you had to
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Old 2011-05-20, 09:39   Link #8848
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this has newtype theory written all over it
Way off. It was actually Bruce Springsteen - Secret Garden. Not Gundam...
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Old 2011-05-20, 10:14   Link #8849
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Way off. It was actually Bruce Springsteen - Secret Garden. Not Gundam...
hhheeeee, but the newtype thing sounds so similar to what you said
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Old 2011-05-20, 11:16   Link #8850
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What about AT fields?
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Old 2011-05-20, 11:46   Link #8851
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More like Lina Inverse casting Dragon Slave.

So apparently 1 in 3 people cheat on their partner while in a relationship. And apparently there's a growing business for catering for affairs...*shiver*
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Old 2011-05-20, 13:55   Link #8852
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Today, I had two dreams :

1) I was with a girl I liked a lot before I hooked up with my current girlfriend

2) Pretty much the same but there was another girl I liked (again besides the 1st girl and my girlfriend)

In every dream I was flirting with the girl but when things got hot,we kissed, but then I rejected both girls in favor of my girlfriend, but when I woke up, I wish I didn't do it because it was a dream.

But in reality I want to stay loyal to my gf but sometimes when I am in a bad mood I feel that I want to embrace and hug those other girls because I think that life is quite boring and I want something new.

Is that wrong?
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Old 2011-05-20, 14:20   Link #8853
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I personally don't see anything wrong as long as you're physically and mentally loyal to your current girlfriend, but then I'm sort of forgiving in that aspect.
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Old 2011-05-20, 14:34   Link #8854
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It's never wrong to have thoughts, you can't exactly control what feelings come to mind. Fairly sure 100% of people won't be entirely faithful to their partner in mind every second of the day. You do, however, have to evaluate if these thoughts have significant meaning.

If you think about being with other girls more often then you should you'll have to figure what's 'wrong' with the relationship you already have and if it's worth seperating over. If there's nothing in particular and you just want to experiment with other girls, the 'grass is always greener' proverb may come in to play, or it may not. There's no way of knowing, you have to weigh these things up for yourself.
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Old 2011-05-20, 14:35   Link #8855
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I personally don't see anything wrong as long as you're physically and mentally loyal to your current girlfriend, but then I'm sort of forgiving in that aspect.
You mean the aspect - is the thought of cheating?

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If you think about being with other girls for a long time and fairly often you'll have to figure what's 'wrong' with the relationship you already have and if it's worth separating over.

I don't think for them for a long time, only at a few moments. I think it's acceptable, don't you agree?
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Old 2011-05-20, 14:46   Link #8856
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A few moments of thinking of another girl is acceptable if it means nothing to you, in which case you can ignore it and continue to be happy with your girlfriend.
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Old 2011-05-20, 14:46   Link #8857
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You mean the aspect - is the thought of cheating?
We need to define cheating. For me, cheating is actively seeking out others. In your case, you're just giving your imagination an occasional field day, which I don't see as harmless unless it becomes a big part of your life.
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Old 2011-05-20, 14:54   Link #8858
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From what I gather, it's that you felt some regret for rejecting the girls that appeared in your dreams because you later realized that they were in fact dreams. Correct me if I'm wrong but that thought was what got you confused. Rather, take pride in the fact that even in your dreams, you would reject a girl in favour of your real gf, which to me says that even subconsciously, you're very loyal to her, so imho, you shouldn't really dwell too much on this idea because by the end of the day, you know that your gf is the main star of your show As Sumeragi said, cheating is actively seeking others when you're already in a relationship with someone, which is not what's happening with you as far as I can tell.
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Old 2011-05-20, 15:02   Link #8859
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Wow, that's quite nice analysis

But still I think that deep deep inside me there's a part of me that really wants to taste other girls.
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Old 2011-05-20, 15:11   Link #8860
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But still I think that deep deep inside me there's a part of me that really wants to taste other girls.
If you're a normal, healthy guy with hormones, that's a given, really. Don't feel guilty when you're not actually acting on those impulses.
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