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Old 2012-04-09, 20:44   Link #10301
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Ok I just want to be clear.

You're not waffling over weither to engage in pursuit just because your tastes in anime/manga differ are you?
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Old 2012-04-09, 22:18   Link #10302
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You can't. And the problem is, fujoshis tend to be more impressionable than normal girls because they are more open-minded. It is a good thing to spread open-mindedness, however I certainly DO NOT WANT my other female friends to open themselves up to that kind of stuff!

And she likes yuri too. That makes her probably as big a monster as Sume-nee Sumeragi.



Her concept of anime is shonen-ai......which she likes to enjoy imagining as yaoi. Mine is MMM, music/mecha/magic, so we don't exactly click when it comes to talking about anime.

She has an interest in One Piece, though I certainly hope that she doesn't imagine Luffy's "rubber hands" THAT WAY. *shudders*
Position heterosexuality as the best of both worlds.

Hurr hurr.
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Old 2012-04-10, 01:28   Link #10303
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Hey, you mentioned she was also into yuri? Well that's a good start.

Seriously though, have you tried talking to her about anything that can't be related to her...yaoi-enthusiasm?

If you do maybe you won't find her so bad.
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Old 2012-04-10, 02:46   Link #10304
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Ok I just want to be clear.

You're not waffling over weither to engage in pursuit just because your tastes in anime/manga differ are you?
I'll just quote this question, even though I already know the answer...get over it, different anime tastes is the last reason you'd want to lose a girl Then again, what if SH walks into her room and it's full of yaoi posters? The terror :O
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Old 2012-04-10, 08:57   Link #10305
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I'll just quote this question, even though I already know the answer...get over it, different anime tastes is the last reason you'd want to lose a girl Then again, what if SH walks into her room and it's full of yaoi posters? The terror :O
Oh god, that's like this cute girl who lived down the hall in my university dorm and her walls were plastered with K-pop boy bands. The terror ;__;
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It's a way to judge people but I find it to be wrong most of the time. My ex was a fujoshi and I don't think that had any effect on her personality compared to anyone I know that isn't.
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Old 2012-04-10, 10:11   Link #10306
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Ok I just want to be clear.

You're not waffling over weither to engage in pursuit just because your tastes in anime/manga differ are you?
Given that that's the only thing they have in common (that we know of), why SHOULDN'T he waffle about that?
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Old 2012-04-10, 10:22   Link #10307
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Given that that's the only thing they have in common (that we know of), why SHOULDN'T he waffle about that?
I guess it's akin to a Redskins fan finding someone they click with because of football (assume for this that it's harder to find football fans, just for comparison's sake), only to discover they're Cowboys fans?
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Old 2012-04-10, 10:40   Link #10308
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I guess it's akin to a Redskins fan finding someone they click with because of football (assume for this that it's harder to find football fans, just for comparison's sake), only to discover they're Cowboys fans?
Or finding a self-acclaimed 'gamer girl' who plays fruit ninja and 3 months of WoW with her ex-bf.

I actually find it hard to be turned off by someone's gaming preferences. I'd play anything :/
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Old 2012-04-10, 11:55   Link #10309
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If she's open-minded, then all you need to do is interest her in something freakier than yaoi, which you yourself can accept too.
Pray tell, what will that be?

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For example, you can do a Mariya, dress up in gothic loli, and start something alike to a yuri relationship with her.
That sounds totally wrong. I don't crossplay unless it is an event and there are friends who are doing the same.

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I will never watch One Piece quite the same way again.
Thank goodness I never watched one piece. And I dropped PoT because there are way too many guys.

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Ok I just want to be clear.

You're not waffling over weither to engage in pursuit just because your tastes in anime/manga differ are you?
I am waffling over to engage her or not because she's a FUJOSHI. Tastes in manga are okay, but one thing I fear are BL fangirls.
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Old 2012-04-10, 12:05   Link #10310
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That sounds totally wrong. I don't crossplay unless it is an event and there are friends who are doing the same.
The first word in any relationship is 'sacrifices'.

C'mon, it's not that hard, and it probably wouldn't be the first time. If that's what you have to do to get some, well, that's what you gotta do.

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I am waffling over to engage her or not because she's a FUJOSHI. Tastes in manga are okay, but one thing I fear are BL fangirls.
Prolonged exposure will build up your immunity to her before long, no worries.
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Old 2012-04-10, 13:42   Link #10311
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Old 2012-04-10, 13:55   Link #10312
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Old 2012-04-10, 13:59   Link #10313
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You must invite me next time then.

even if it would take a while to make the trip from Portugal... Does anyone have a teleporter I can borrow?
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Old 2012-04-10, 15:50   Link #10314
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Does anyone have a teleporter I can borrow?
Do I have one? Yes. Do I have one that you can borrow? No.
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Old 2012-04-12, 08:48   Link #10315
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Old 2012-04-12, 08:54   Link #10316
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Where? The kitchen? The closet?

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Old 2012-04-12, 09:21   Link #10317
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The first word in any relationship is 'sacrifices'.

C'mon, it's not that hard, and it probably wouldn't be the first time. If that's what you have to do to get some, well, that's what you gotta do.
I already have made so many sacrifices in life that I am practically meals-on-wheels! Having fujoshi for a date is the last thing I need!
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Old 2012-04-12, 09:34   Link #10318
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I already have made so many sacrifices in life that I am practically meals-on-wheels! Having fujoshi for a date is the last thing I need!
That's because you focus too much on the first word in every relationship, while neglecting the ones that come after that first word; 'for the right person.'

Besides, are you really going to give up what could be a good chance, just because of one small matter? If you're really that bothered by it, just go gothic loli on every date to avoid her shipping you with any hot guy you two come across.

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Old 2012-04-12, 10:00   Link #10319
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Besides, are you really going to give up what could be a good chance, just because of one small matter? If you're really that bothered by it, just go gothic loli on every date to avoid her shipping you with any hot guy you two come across.

You expect me to crossdress on our dates? No!
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Old 2012-04-12, 10:05   Link #10320
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You expect me to crossdress on our dates? No!
Yes! By all means!

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