Not to but in to your business, but I read what you posted about you and your girlfriend. Samari it's time you had a sit down with her about these dominearing things! Especially if it's bothering you that badly! Every relationship has it friction points, and it seems you hit one. You two need to talk this out and try to find a nice medium.
Just between you and me; as much as I like a clean house and clean kids, there's no way in hell you'll catch me using hand sanitizer every hour! LC