Don't get me wrong. I dislike their pov, but I don't have the right to say that my choices are the good ones or better
What does really count in life? Many things, but among them, I think that it's important to be happy and to stay true to oneself. If they are happy with their life and stay true to themself. If what they're doing doesn't break the Laws, I don't have the right to say anything. It's the same for me, they don't have any right to criticize me since I am very happy with my choices and life so far
(actually I only badly point fingers with criticism when they criticize me without any reason or when they force their opinions on me)
Why do you think that two minds/souls can't merge?