Sexuality
What is your sexuality?
Do you think it matters what sexuality you are? Have you ever been bullied for your sexuality? I think sexuality is a very important subject, so Discuss. And to be honest I am confused about my sexuality at the moment.. |
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Sounds like you need answers not to the questions you're asking, but to questions you're not asking at the moment. What happened, Imouto-chan? Is there something about yourself that you're feeling bothered about? Tell us. :( |
Father and son were driving on the road.
An accident took place, father died on the spot. Son was sent to the hospital and a doctor works on him in the ER. The doctor says, 'he is my son'. Who is the father? Spoiler for answer:
Anyway the above is a question asked by my teacher, she had a degree on gender studies. She was telling us about how the society identifies individuals and stuff by gender, its just subconsciously built into the mind that males and females must behave in certain ways. Why can a female be dressed in a tomboy or masculine way but males can't wear skirts or put on make-up. Why do people like yuri more than yaoi? 'Ignore gender and kick sexuality to the curb!' I have that in my sig for some time. I like traps, they're very interesting. I'm still like females much more than males, I don't draw males in my pics for example. But I don't have this fear of becoming gay some time, though I don't see myself ever becoming gay. Until some guy makes me go gay for him, I'm still going to love girls. |
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I think that(originally) has something to do with the male and female's natural tendency of preference with their outward appearance but, of course, society pressure boosts this tendency. Females are more flexible and have a different type of brain that lets them do many things at the same time. Quote:
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My gender identity is female, even though my biological sex is male. Quote:
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Synaesthetic, How can one's gender identity be female but biological sex be male? Your biological composition determines your gender. So I guess you are saying that you just have an aversion to male culture? I can sympathize somewhat here, as I tend to find the cultural expectations for a male to be extremely constricting. And American guys' clothing selection is just terrible...
I'm still a little confused. If you date women, are you saying that you ideally wish you were a lesbian woman? |
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So it's not so much I'm averse to male culture--male culture is fine for males who enjoy being men. I'm more saying that I would prefer not to have the set of equipment I was born with, and have been trying (though not very successfully) to change them. |
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Then there's something like being a female bassist, instantly means sexy. Female drivers = bad? Men and women are equal? etc. Gender has an affect in everything we identify with. I personally don't care too much about gender. People should just do what they like, being gay, cross dressing, working in jobs that are commonly for the opposite sex etc. Quote:
I think I would be better off female, probably because I hate Singapore's National Service for males. I've never been bullied for being a male, I've never be bullied before. Like I mentioned above, be what you like to be. |
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Gender and biological sex are actually two different concepts. Biological sex is....well, what it says on the tin, basically. The hardware you start out with. What you come packaged with. IYKWIM. Gender, on the other hand, is something more akin to an aspect of self-identity. It's what one considers oneself to be, and forms part of one's self-identification; much like one would refer to oneself as an occupation, or a name, or such. So let's take synaesthetic as an example....she came into the world with masculine hardware, but self-identifies as a female. So yes, it is possible for one's gender identity to be at odds with one's biological sex. The problem here is that most people confuse the terms "sex" and "gender" to be interchangable; that's not the case. Refer again to the definition I brought up. That Sexuality module I took last semester sure comes in handy now. :D |
Naw. I have external plumbing, I just don't want it!
I started life out as male, but it didn't jive with how my brain and emotional state worked. Some little mistake during conception, some trigger that should have gone off, not going off. Who knows why it ended up the way it did, but the fact is I should have been female, but I wasn't born that way. |
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Sexuality matters at the place where I work, and my boss probably won't accept anyone who is gay. Never been bullied about my sexuality because I am straight. |
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Seems like you don't know female bassists are considered sexy and female drivers are always criticised. Well, now you know. The topic on gender and sexuality will always exist, as long as humans have these 2 genders. |
synaesthetic, I'm just curious....if you're in need of the basic necessities, where are you posting from? :eyespin:
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It's the sociological definition I'm using here, dude. My definition of "gender" is about as objective as it gets. And what do you mean "how does one know that he should self-identify as a male or female"? synaesthetic and her kind are proof enough that there are people out there whose gender identification are at odds with their biological makeup. Really, just because you don't have to experience that kind of conflict about your own identity doesn't mean such conflicts doesn't exist. :eyebrow: Quote:
EDIT: Oh, and thanks for the positive rep, kid. Good job at your epic fail of a neg attempt there. ;) |
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