Not wanting to join your fight too much, but I feel I should point out something:
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Originally Posted by mangaf_cksdotcom
so hurting people isnt a mistake? going out with asuka for 2 years and dumped after a hiroshima visit isnt his mistake?
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This is where I believe your misunderstanding comes from. The correct answer is that sometimes you can't help but hurting people if you want to do the right thing. And dumping Asuka after realizing that he loves someone else IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO.
Let that sink in for a minute.
Do you honestly think that keeping Asuka hanging on is the right thing to do? To beg forgiveness (that she made clear she'd be willing to give) and then continue living a lie? Do you have any idea how corrupting and nasty it is to be with someone while being in love with someone else?
No, he HAD to tell Asuka the truth and separate. We can debate on HOW to break the news, but the general decision he took was correct.