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Originally Posted by DonQuigleone
It's not healthy to spend too much time with one person.
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It's not healthy for one's overall mental health to be isolated and alone, but I haven't seen anything claiming that it's possible to spend an unhealthy amount of time with one person.
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Originally Posted by Aqua Knight
Spending too much time together ruins the relationships from my POV (most of the time). That is when you only spend time together, but not with friends, etc.
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Everyone has a different expectation of how a relationship will go, and what's most important is that both members have similar expectations. Otherwise you'll get some conflict; in your case, you're feeling held down, but if your girlfriend lets you go off to do things as you wish, she'll probably feel neglected. It may be possible to negotiate and have both members adjust, but this is something that you should probably deal with sooner rather than later. Let your girlfriend know how you feel, but reassure her that you're not judging her, not finding her to be annoying, and that you want to make it work so that you're both happy. (Assuming you really do, anyway.)