Well, for me, the reason I'm at lost to being bi and freely loving another girl or not is not because of society and what other people will think.. Anyone else's thoughts don't really matter to me..
What matters to me is, I wonder if God would still accept me..
That is all, that is why I try to prevent myself, and maybe just grow up being single..
Spoiler for long rant about your private question:
As for your private question, I'd like to have a relationship with someone who is finally a whole individual.. I'd like to have a connection with them emotionally, mentally and spiritually.. Not just "love" and "passion" in a relationship, as to those two fade in time, but a deep commitment and long understanding with each other, sharing both positiveness and helping each grow to a better person and individual.. That is my ideal relationship n_n
(Though, even if the person has not become an individual yet, as long as she/he gives unconditional unselfish love [expecting nothing in return w/c I will notice by the way you speak and move, lol] I would admire that a lot)
As for qualities, I like someone who is intelligent, open minded, respectful, humorous, godly, and wants to give back to the world..
I guess those are some pretty high expectations..