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Originally Posted by Suki-chan
@Urzu 7: I like a gentle spank, bare bottom or wearing panties. Just one or five. That's the limit.
My boyfriend used to spank me all the time, he said it was for learning respect. Since I lacked that "too much".
His spanking were hard and absolutely not gentle.
Those spanking did make me cry from time to time.
But in the end he always rubs my butt or kissed it, to soft the pain. I think.
Later it grow'd to be a passion. I like hard spankings, but not as much as I love gentle ones.
And now when I just began to like it... We broke up. ( T____T)
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119 here, I'm another person who will admit to a serious spanking fetish- giving, not receiving, probably my biggest fetish.
Now I've never had a girlfriend in my life (see my replies to the dating thread), but somehow I just know I have the fetish. Literally, if a girl is not willing to let me spank her occasionally (preferably more than that), it would literally be a deal breaker.
I am literally determined to fulfill this fantasy at least once (preferably more) before I die. Thankfully, there are a number of dating services and, if nothing else, S&M clubs for this kind of thing, so I think I can say I WILL.
Psychologically, it and some other fetishes I won't mention might be part of a desire to counter the feeling of powerlessness in I have felt in the past in terms of relationships (see my posts from about a year ago in the dating thread, or don't, I was pretty desperate and stupid then). In other words, I think this and my other fetishes, which would probably make me a slight "S", are part of a desire to be in control, a desire to take back the power.
That said, I would of course, respect a girl's desire not to engage in this. Simply, a girl not interested just wouldn't be the one for me. I'll simply find myself another woman who I can really connect with... who also happens to have slight "M" tendencies.