You people all confuse me .. what does being independent and strong have to do with shipping? How many of you are dating, engaged or married in real life or have been? Relationships require sacrifice, but they don't make you give up on yourself as a person .. geez, everyone has dreams, people will follow them and be apart for a while. Is the idea of two people that love each other being away from each other that terrifying? Is the idea that people can follow their own paths but still love each other confusing in some way?
