[Destined_Fate]

You're downplaying Kira's failures and mistakes in Destiny over and over again. Kira had no justification for when he attacked Minerva, the Battle of ORB, and the such. He was basically trying to force people to live a life he wanted, he didn't care if anyone liked the Destiny plan or not at the end. All he cared about is that he didn't like it so he was going to kill Durandal and those that agreed with the Destiny Plan could just suck it up as he didn't care what they wanted.

Yes there was, they could have opened global communications and made it know that they were joining the Alliance and that they desired to liberate ORB from Yuna and help them get back Djibril. Cagalli and co. didn't do that, they went in guns ablazing as taking a few seconds to talk was apparently too long for them as they wanted to get in and shoot people right away.

That's where you're wrong. It WASN'T a side effect it was a DIRECT effect. Cagalli and Kira showing up aiding ORB and fighting ZAFT/Feds allowed Djibril to escape. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. It's their fault as they, once again, jumped into a situation at the spur of the moment without getting all their facts straight first.

Doubtful, if they entered Global Communications and stated their intent to aid Feds/ZAFT in liberating ORB from it current corrupt leader and helping them get Djibril instead of randomly appearing and shooting at them than things would have been far different.

Denying it doesn't change a thing, Kira had a god complex. Durandal at least didn't pretend that he wasn't sinful nor did he sugarcoat that he would kill if it meant his Destiny Plan, thus ending war, would succeed. Kira opposing Durandal didn't make him right no matter how much Kira tried to make it seem like it, that's the difference between them. Durandal was straight to the point with his desires and didn't live in a fantasy world like Kira who was doing the exact same thing as Durandal - Kira was forcing people not to go with the Destiny Plan just like Durandal wanted to force people to go with it.

How rational was that? He THREATENS them when they're in a middle of a fight, thus adrenaline is going, and tries to tell them that his word is the one they must follow, God Complex, or he'll attack them both. Even Athrun saw how completely and utterly dumb that was as Kira tried to push that he was right and they were wrong for not listening to him.

ORB would have been far less damaged without all the extra fighting as before Cagalli and co. showed up ORB was being demolished and was on the brink of surrender. Had they surrendered than the damage would have ceased almost entirely as ZAFT/Feds didn't go there to level ORB anyway but to go after Djibril. Not fighting ORB would have made their real mission far easier.

Transports ships aren't known to be fast and Djibril did have allies waiting for him in space. No way he would retreat and just float around by himself.

Please, now you're being very sad here. Police and co. often ask the public to help them out with tips and the such. Kira had one of the most powerful Gundams around and had the means to go after Djibril as ORB didn't need him there for it to rebuild. Kira didn't, he was far too busy worrying about other things and turned a blind eye to Djibril thus leaving it only up to the Alliance to take care of Djibril as Kira didn't feel he should waste his time actually doing good by stopping Djibril. Course it's to be expected considering that Kira didn't care at all that his interference allowed Djibril to escape in the first place.

Durandal ordered that. Talia and the rest of the Alliance at the Battle of ORB didn't know a thing about the Lacus assassination attempt or that Meer was a fake at that point.

Kira's hands were stained the most, only Djibril and Durandal have more blood on their hands. You downplay Kira's dumb moves left and right and try to justify that since everyone has bloodied hands that Kira isn't special which isn't the case at all. Kira tries to present himself the moral person that's always right and never once apologizes or takes responsibility for all the BS he pulled in Destiny or how hypocritical it was of him to want to kill Durandal as Kira wanted to force people not to accept the Destiny Plan whether they liked it or not. At least Durandal didn't pretend he was "good" like Kira did, he merely present that the Destiny Plan was the best way to stop War and that's why he wanted it established and would do anything to see it through.