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Old 2012-02-03, 11:21   Link #10053
solomon
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Suburban DC
Typed a bunch of stuff and then lost it and am lazy.......so

Look I don't know everyone's own personal issues and I am NOT trying to belittle you if you have them.

But sometimes it reads like people are being a little too self defeatist. I am a 24 year old male virgin nerd (for you brothers out there you KNOW how embarrising that would come off as!). But after trying to hit up people in the RL with no luck I took a stab at a free dating site, it took two months but I finally managed to make some connections with people.

There are wide amount of people out there. It's at least partially about attitude. I'm not saying you need to make a full image/personality makeover like in Hitch or any such bullshit. But you have to size yourself up in an ABSOLUTE sense not a relative one. If you are handling your buisness and are confident about yourself, odds are you will find someone. It may take a long time and it may not lead to wedding bells but you will have done SOMETHING.
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